we have bn together for three years ,i discovers that she changed becose she dating onother guy,we broke up but it steal hurt me cos i steal love her .
2007-09-01 01:06:57 · 11 answers · asked by Rajabu H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if you want to obsess about it. The best thing is to move on and find someone who won't cheat.
2007-09-01 01:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Knowing why people cheated doesn't change the fact that they did.
It does hurt but it isn't your fault.
If she cheated she wasn't right for you.
You will get over it in time and find someone else more deserving of you.
In my experience it doesn't work to try and save a relationship with someone who has cheated because the trust is broken and they may do it again anyway.
Spend time with people who treat you better .
2007-09-01 01:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's understandable that you still love her because you felt close to her, but a person who cheats once is most likely to cheat again so i'd advise you not to go down that road again. no, it's not important to know why she cheated. the reason may end up hurting you even more or she may have no reason at all. you'll be able to find someone who is so much better for you and who will respect you and care for you so much that they won't even think about cheating.
2007-09-01 01:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um you mean still love her? Who Cares! Women are all Ho's some more then others! Women are constantly plotting behind our backs looking for the guy with more money or a bigger jock...... F@#K EM! Don't fall in love with any woman unless you know 100% you can trust'em for life. Iv'e known tons of women but fell in love with only one because I know better. The secret to getting through this life is being impartial like our Father in heaven meaning don't let the things that bind us to anger and hate and jealousy affect you in any way. Don't mourn for lost love or love ones, just accept it you can't change the world it is sacred all you can do is strive to be happy treat others with love and don't let those who do the opposite affect you.
Peace
2007-09-01 01:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was selfish, that's why. That's all you really need to know and it's time for you to find someone better that appreciates you and would come to you with any issues instead of running off with the next guy.
2007-09-01 01:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 years of dating is a long time. A woman wants commitment, perhaps you are not giving her that.
So since you both are not bethrothed to each other, she should see other guys while you see other girls.
2007-09-01 01:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nora C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not important to know why. She has moved on to another dating relationship. So should you. Find someone else to love.
2007-09-01 01:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens a lot, there is always a reason why, but we are not always given the real reason, mostly it,s "It just happened" Importance does not ease the hurt.
2007-09-01 01:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you r considering getting back together then of course yes it is important....
2007-09-01 01:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated. I don't see how knowing why would make it hurt any less.
2007-09-01 01:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋