I love her but sometimes i think its a too big a step, i mean whole life, my freedom, cant drink too much , have to grow up,babies, money sometimes i start sweating, Is it normal, or i dont love her that much that i cant focus on that we will be together and happy?
2007-09-01 01:38:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think this is normal. its just nerves. Maybe your should talk to your fiance and tell her how you feel. She might feel the same way. But think about it this way, its good not to be able to drink too much, babies can be a handful but its just another stage of life. At least its not you that has too put up with a big lump ion your tummy, or vomiting. Lol. Just think about it all. Ask your closet mate, or a member of your family.
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2007-09-01 02:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by brunette_babe_2k7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer the love thing, DO you love her enough to grow up and start a family? If you feel you aren't ready and you have to ask this question than you aren't ready. Marriage takes allot of work and allot of time and energy, communication the whole thing. You aren't mature enough to accept the responsibilities that come with marriage, so my opinion would be to wait until you grow up more, and hopefully she will be willing to wait, but i wouldn't hold my breath.
2007-09-01 02:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not ready to make that step. marriage is alot of work, and you need to be commited to all aspects of it. It is normal to have some fear and concern. You really need to sit think about this long and hard. Maybe you need to postpone it for a time. Good luck.
2007-09-01 01:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by ladyhawk8141 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not ready? or are you scare??
It what is wrong with getting marry, it is not the end of the world. Every thing like baby and no drinking etc..don't happen over night.
Cant be that bad. PPL get marry and it is up to them to compomise what they gona do to make the marriage work.
2007-09-01 01:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by MeOwwW.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I had those doubts and still have them.
But you need to look her straight in the eye and see if shes the one you wanna be with forever and you love unconditionally the dobts wont matter.
My guess: take a break away from everyone, and see what happens
2007-09-01 01:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are really Devil's Nephew, always scared of taking responsibilities but on the lookout of fun.
Go for it, or leave it. Decide. If you do not marry, the problems of your life will be reduced by 76%. The option is yours.
2007-09-01 01:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is right. You are a dumb ***! A smart women would never let a man treat her this way and keep going back for more. You love him and you want to fix him. What's wrong with you???
2016-04-02 21:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you are quite ready. If you get married now you might end up resenting her for taking away your "freedom," and might even end up hating her. Tell her how you feel, and if she loves you as well, she will understand. .
2007-09-01 01:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes indeed its probably the biggest step in your life....so you should feel Top of the world about it or otherwise maybe you arent ready or you dont love her that much......did you express your feelings to her about it,maybe she has them too
2007-09-01 01:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're not ready. If you feel you're gonna be losing more then what you'll be gaining then don't go ahead with it yet, wait another year.
2007-09-01 01:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋