Family & Relationships - 1 September 2007

My last question LOL. I know it is the same act but there seems to be a difference......

2007-09-01 15:18:07 · 33 answers · asked by Street Wise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is mad at me 4 liking some 1 she is mad at cuz he broke her heart. and doesnt wont me 2 like him cuz she is worried 4 me. but lately she even says she doesnt wont me liking him i think it cuz she still likes him what do u think??????????????

2007-09-01 15:17:39 · 25 answers · asked by ARB 2 in Friends

Ok I've liked this guy since last year I told him how I felt and well I didn't get the same feelings returned anyway were friends now but I talked to him on the phone and he said he used to like me and now he seems to like me but I really don't know. He always seems to notice me out a crowd and he asked me about who I'm going to homecoming with. It seem s like he sendind signals but I'm really not sure advice please

2007-09-01 15:14:25 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-01 15:13:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not saying just take any convicted felon in that comes off the street. im saying if you did your research on the person and believe they have been rehabilitated would you hire a convicted felon? do keep in mind that the recidivism rate(return to prison) is extremely high. please excuse spelling!

2007-09-01 15:07:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well i know this guy, hes my friend and hes totally into his "thing" if you know what i mean, i dont know whats wrong with him, whenever hes around me i catch him like rubbing on things or like rubbing things on it. then whenever im sitting with him really close, out of the corner of my eye i see him grabbing at his thing. also, sometimes were walking and he kinda rubs it on me.
what does this mean?
also, other friends told me
they have never experienced it
and im the only one who has
so they think im making this up!


what does this mean?

2007-09-01 15:06:09 · 6 answers · asked by remy_h_park 2 in Singles & Dating

Me &brandon are no longer togather.. &i just found out that i realy am prego. He told me that no matter what happnes between us that he is going to be there for me &the baby. But he cant even tack cair of himself how is he supost to tack cair of me &this baby??? Know that i am prego. Brandon wants to be with me forever. &i want to be with him forever to. But what am i to do or say to him?? I need help. i love him &want to be with him but he need's to get help &he is welling to get that help know that i am going to have his baby. What am i going to do?? Should i go back to him and leat him be a dad and a loving boyfriend.. Also he asked me to marry him...&i told him to leat me think about it for a day or two...&he said it cool... So should i leat him be a husbend to me &become a good dad to this baby??? Plz help... Keap in mind that i do still love and want to spend the rest of my life with him... :]] :[[

2007-09-01 15:04:20 · 16 answers · asked by Caitlin K 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't enjoy going out to family gatherings
I don't enjoy hanging out with friends unless i'm really bored
I don't share or talk to anyone on a deeper level than the surface
I don't care about anything or anyone but myself, but i'm not mean it's just the main focus is me.
I'm not depressed or sad or lonely or shy, i feel perfectly fine, but i was taking a life-span class and it talks about when you're older and i don't want to be a lonely old lady, but people just don't interest me too much and i don't really care about spending time with them. and like if someone does me wrong or does something to deceive me i never talk to them ever again. I just take them out of my life and it doesn't bother me at all. So is there something wrong with me? How can i make myself like people?

2007-09-01 15:02:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My dad's an alcoholic and when he drinks he is a completely different person...he is really mean. He's been like this my whole life..so my mom divorced him because he gets out of control and now sometimes I'm home alone with him and when he's drunk he always finds something to fight about..he targets who ever he's around. I also think he is depressed...well actually i know he's depressed and I feel bad for him sometimes..but most of the time I get really mad. I love him so much and I know he loves me too..he just acts completely different when he drinks. He knows he has a problem but he doesn't really do anything about it. I don't know how to talk to him about it..I never have..I'm afraid.. I don't know ..what do you think? I just don't want to grow up and be one of those people who never really had a father figure..I feel like I'll regret never doign anything about it..btw I'm 15.

tell me what you think...ok thank you

2007-09-01 15:01:41 · 8 answers · asked by Stacy 3 in Family

People that I have talked to said that because we are both virgins and we love each other our relationship will change.

For the better or something different?

They say that sex changes everything in a relationship but............how so?

2007-09-01 14:58:38 · 19 answers · asked by Street Wise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband thinks its ok for him to stay out all night and come home at like 7 a.m. he tells me that he was at his friends house and they got drunk and he didnt want to drive. He doesnt think its a big deal becase theyre guy friends and he says "at least im not out cheating". i have given him like 5 chances and he did it again lastnight. i want to fly back home and tell him im taking my 7 month old daughter and were leaving you. im know i really dont want to stay gone but i want to teach him a lesson so he'll stop taking advantage of me. weve been together since we were in 8th grade and i dont want a divorce but i dont know how much more i can take.

2007-09-01 14:56:48 · 13 answers · asked by SamanthaF 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My father has never spent quality time with me throughout the past 20 years of my life. He is a workaholic. He never taught me any technical skills, sports or whatever. Even when he is at home he never communicates, he justs sits behind a newspaper or watches TV. He never encourages me, takes pride in my academic achievements, and he doesn't care about me emotionally. He is as good as growing up w/o a father. He's also a very strict disciplinarian, always caning me whenever I offended him even a little or whenever I try to stand up to him. I'm afraid of him and I don't love him at all. He also annoys me by always trying to say I'm in the wrong and not a good son, etc even when things are ok. I really hated him for this. He always uses physical force on me and even threatened to send me to a boys' home or cut off my fingers when I hit my brother.
He is worse than a terrorist. I think he has some issues at work and he tries to displace it on me as some object.

2007-09-01 14:53:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

stop bugging me about it,shes even got her kids after me,im afraid to bump into her! what kind of a snappy answer can i give her to get her off my back? or is there anything i can do to "avoid her"?

2007-09-01 14:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love kisses!

2007-09-01 14:45:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this question earlier, but didn't post many details of the situation before I got many of the responses, so I want to post it again with the details.

I have a four year old son who lives with me 1/3 of the time (10 nights per month) I pay $1000 per month in support in addition to 1/2 of daycare and copays, and 100% medical/dental costs withheld from my paycheck.

My ex called me up today and told me that she enrolled our son in soccer and asked if I would pay half of the fees (my part is $65).

Financially, I have no problem paying the money. The problem I do have is that I think the money should come out of support. She gets plenty.

It doesn't cost anywhere near $1000 (tax free) per month to raise a child.
BTW, I have 100% custody of my eight year old son from a previous relationship, so I know what it costs to raise a child - and I've received NO support for him since I've had him by myself (6 years).

2007-09-01 14:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by foobarred 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 22 y/o just had a baby August 22 married but separated and most likely getting a divorce sooner than I thought. I left my husband about a month ago because he has a drinkinganger problem. After I left it seems like he got worse he would call in to work using me as an excuse even though I wasnt living w/him anymore he would tell his boss that I was in the hospital etc..He called in3days in a row and got suspended w/no pay. He almost got fired and somehow got a second chance, ever since I got out of the hospital he has not provided our baby with anything@all. My mom had to pay the remainder of the balance that the insurance didnt cover, bcause he didnt have$260. He has w-drawn$from our account like crazy, he gets pissed off when I ask him to give me an explanation about what has he spent the$he came over2my parents home to see our baby stayed 2hrs then left didnt bring any$for the baby and said he would come back2moro with4mula and diapers.Continued below....

2007-09-01 14:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by Juliet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that people would do that to those people in that building i mean its really sad i wished i could have done something it just makes me mad just wanted to say my 2 cents thanks lol

2007-09-01 14:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by codye 2 in Singles & Dating

Every serious relationship I've had has ended in the girl cheating on me. I'm a nice guy. What gives?

2007-09-01 14:43:00 · 12 answers · asked by K D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband hasn't worked in 5 months and we are barely scraping by. I work and go to college fulltime, while he does neither. He sits at home and plays computer games and watched DVDs all day long, then expect fast food every day. When I get upset about finances, he feels bad and applies to 1 or 2 crappy, minimum wage jobs like fast food and retail, then goes back into his patterns. He's very sensitive and if I bring it up, he gets really upset. What can I do? I feel like screaming at him to get off his lazy butt almost every day...I love him, but I am so frustrated.

2007-09-01 14:37:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-01 14:36:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday , My husband came home from work to tell me he wanted to go out with the guys. I didn't mind, thought maybe I could enjoy a night at home with out video games going on 24/7 at my house. He left around 8pm and I encouraged him to have a good time. At 4 am I woke to realize he wasnt home yet. He didnt answer his cell phone from 4 am to 8am, saying he didnt have reception. He showed up at 10 am this morning. His friends wanted to come in to use the restroom, and I said no way. I was so mad, that I worried all night about him, wondering if he was okay, or hurt, or in trouble. He pranced in here as if he did nothing wrong. I told him his behavior was unacceptable. Not that he went out with the guys, but that he never tried to call, or be concerned about me. He has been asleep all day, and I am wondering how to react at this point.
Any ideas?

2007-09-01 14:35:05 · 15 answers · asked by CHRISSY B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-01 14:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy that I have a crush on watched me take care of some little kids at a place that I babysit at. Once I was away from the kids he gave me a gentle but yet serious look on his face. He grabbed me around the waist, pulled me to him in a tight embrace, and whispered that he is going to marry me and wants me to have his children. I was rather shocked since it came out of no where. He is also really popular with the girls at our highschool. I guess he likes me too since he also told me that he likes that I'm a nice girl and that I'm still a virgin and explained to me that he'd like to take my virginity on our wedding day. A lot of girls like him and I'm the shy cute type of girl while he's the good looking sociable popular guy at school. All of this is happening so fast! What in the world is going on!

2007-09-01 14:34:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-01 14:33:30 · 31 answers · asked by nelppik 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My son is 17 and an only child. He is a good, sweet kid but doesn't get the best grades(C average). My husband (a straight A student ) doesn't understand my son. My husband never wanted to have children yet he got involved with me and he knew I had a teenager. It is as if he doesn't like it when I spend money on my son, I have to argue for items that he needs. My son would like to join the High School Ski Team and my husband is worried about the cost. We are a two income household and we can afford it. My husband is never mean or abusive to my son- he just avoids him altogether. I feel like I am caught in the middle.

2007-09-01 14:32:27 · 13 answers · asked by Wanderlust 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, with all realness, here it goes. Briefly, my girlfriend and I of two years just broke up about 3=4 wks ago. With in that 3wk time, she met another guy, and in less than a wk, clinged to him, as sayin she became intimate in spending time with him, they've kissed, and she has introduced him to her family(her children, mother, and siblings), and again, we've only been broken up 3wks and she knew this guy for only a week.
Now, last night I went to her home, because I needed questions answered. I wanted to know how could she in such a short period of time, move on so fast. I've also reaffirmed my love for her and told her 3wks was too short for me to get over you and move on to another.... Well, during the course of the night, her lover called(several times), she never answered the phone, and I ended up staying the night. The next day(today) she and I are in eachother's arm. We're kissing, and I swear it felt so good to hold her again...God it felt good. But anyway, I tried a

2007-09-01 14:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not getting married, I'm not even in love, but my friend is and is totally serious about this.

2007-09-01 14:26:09 · 3 answers · asked by kissaliciousness 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend came to me in a fit of panic, and fear. Her dad is an alcoholic and is pretty much crazy. He threatens to kick them out, and sometimes threatens to leave. He refuses to take his meds, and he comes home and screams at my friend and her mom. Her mom is too afraid to do anything, and she won't call the cops or leave, because without him, there's no money and my friend would get extrememly depressed if she couldn't go to school and see her friends. Without their house, their lives would be an even bigger mess than it is now. So she came to me and now I don't know what to do! I don't know what to say to her because it's never happened to me.

2007-09-01 14:20:38 · 4 answers · asked by juneBUG 2 in Friends

I don't understand what's wrong with me -I know I am intelligent. I am just after reading some great answers on my question - I realise I don't have a clear judgement. If he hit me once, does it mean that I am in the abusive relationship? Or is it a one-off? You see, I could see how he was controlling and passive-agressive, paranoid. But there were times, when he was nice and thoughtful, - it's sooo confusing. He is smart, loves animals, great at DIY, does not drink, etc. It's like whatever nice he does is cancelled out by his next actions. Say, 5 years later he would finally admit that he was not ready for kid while he was feeding me lies that may be next year we should try for a baby. Plus he never really tells the truth about what's on his mind. How can I stop living in denial? Is there a pill? :)

2007-09-01 14:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

after 6 years of throat cutting we called it quits and now we work together, talk alot and even hang out! my step kids (her kids) like it. crossing the line?????

2007-09-01 14:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by glamorous 1 in Marriage & Divorce