after 6 years of throat cutting we called it quits and now we work together, talk alot and even hang out! my step kids (her kids) like it. crossing the line?????
2007-09-01 14:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by glamorous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. If you genuninely like each other, its all for the best. Much less stress for the two of you, the kids and your ex.
Just use good judgement in regards to what you discuss and how much you interfere in each others lives.
2007-09-01 14:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mmm, no I don't think so....I'm not married, however I've been dating someone now for a little over a year, and he gets along very well with his ex wife, not necessarily because of the kids, they both describe it as "been there done that, bitterness is gone" kind of thing. It would only cross the line if things started to happen. I'm thankful that that won't ever happen.
2007-09-01 14:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the product of my dad's second marriage. Pretty much every Christmas, Thanksgiving, birthday etc. His first wife and family were over at our house, or we were over theirs celebrating together. My mom used to tell us that it wasn't her fight, that dad was married to her, but his first family was still family. Dad never acted in a way to cause jealousy, so there was no problem.
Personally I think it's great you two get along so well. Think how much more happy all your lives have been since you made up. Good for both of you!
2007-09-01 14:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not surprising - you are probably quite similar which is why your husband was attracted to both of you.
Also, you could have gotten sick of fighting each other - look how much you are enjoying getting along.
2007-09-01 14:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by banana6464 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good thing.
2007-09-01 14:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by quit_callin_me_dumbass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After all you have the same taste in men;-{ sorry.
I guess everyone's grown up a little.
2007-09-01 14:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by Robert S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are the only one sleeping with your husband, it's fine.
2007-09-01 20:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is strange.
2007-09-01 14:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by georgia_peach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋