my friend is mad at me 4 liking some 1 she is mad at cuz he broke her heart. and doesnt wont me 2 like him cuz she is worried 4 me. but lately she even says she doesnt wont me liking him i think it cuz she still likes him what do u think??????????????
2007-09-01 15:17:39 · 25 answers · asked by ARB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
they never went out she just doesnt like him
2007-09-01 15:27:08 · update #1
There is no point whatsoever to this disagreement.
1) Boys are NOT worth fighting over... ever. They are pretty simple and self-serving... their goal is typically just to get as much as they can out of the girls. Either the boy is "with" you or not.
2) Friends are tough to find.
3) That is not exactly a "friend" you have described. She is manipulative and selfish, and can't make up her mind. I would suggest giving her LOTS of space while you go out and meet other people.
Listen... you need to get a little something down. There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with. That alone will make your life better.
2007-09-01 15:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean that she feels you like him in a "Boyfriend" kind of way, that would be wrong for you to do.
Seeing, Dating or be-friending someone that your friend has had a bad experience with would not be a good idea. First off, there would be a lot of tension between you and your friend, Yes you would hurt her feelings and she probably would not trust you as a friend. There are plenty of other guys out there for you to be friends with an to date. Take My advice and let this one go. If he hurt your friend then he isn't worth being around anyway.
Move on. That is your best solution to this.
2007-09-01 15:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and asking her truly why she is mad at you. Because if you don't know you won't be able to fix anything if you need to. If it is her ex-boyfriend, it might be a little uncomfortable for her because u r her friend and ik that if some guy broke my heart my friends would seriously probably hate him and tell him that.
Good luck with ur friend
2007-09-01 15:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still likes him and even if she doesn't, that was her territory and you're crossing it. It's a natural reaction, our animal natures. Think about it, what if you really liked someone who hurt you, and then your bff claimed that she liked him. There are billions of people on this planet, don't let one guy get in between your friendship. It's not worth it. In order to keep your friends, you need to learn the unspoken rules women have about men. My girlfriends and I have always respected those rules and I'm grateful for it.
2007-09-01 15:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you were any kind of friend you would not be with your bestfriends ex ok that is like going for something who has already been had it would crush me if I saw my sister with my ex because especially if I did still have feelings for him its just not right if he broke her heart what makes you think that he wont break yours? think about that bestfriends are like sisters right? well either way if you dont think about this you are hurting your friend and could possibly lose your friendship I hope you make the right decision
2007-09-01 15:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by miimmii_llynnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it's your life, and if liking this guy is a mistake then you need to make it on your own, otherwise you'll never learn.
Also, I think she's full of it.
I think she likes this guy and wants him for herself, but she knows it's against the girl code to go out with someone your friends like.
She's sabotaging you, and she's a bad friend.
2007-09-01 15:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by Starieberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a real friend you would get revenge for you friend. Go out with the geek and then tell everyone at school that he is gay!!!! Tell everyone that he is in love with the quaterback for the football team!! That is what a real friend would do!!!
Kinkodaclown2!!!
2007-09-01 15:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk over along with her, maximum probable her emotions are basically harm and she or he feels stupid. permit her understand which you didnt understand with regard to the guy and that he isnt almost as significant to you as she is. you shouldnt permit this get uncontrolled, you wouldnt opt to lose a competent pal over certainly one of those petty situation, this boy will possibly not even final interior the long-term
2016-12-16 08:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... honestly, if i was in your sitiation, i couldnt help mi feelings for a person. but then again, this has happened to me, but the other way around. mi best friend went out with this guy that had JUST dumped me whenever i told her i still had feelings for him... today we are no longer friends
2007-09-01 15:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion.
Your bff is much more important than guys.
If you go out with that guy and he breaks up with you.
Who is going to be there to comfort you?
Your bff of course!
♥♫☆
2007-09-01 15:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by cee.n ~ ♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋