Me &brandon are no longer togather.. &i just found out that i realy am prego. He told me that no matter what happnes between us that he is going to be there for me &the baby. But he cant even tack cair of himself how is he supost to tack cair of me &this baby??? Know that i am prego. Brandon wants to be with me forever. &i want to be with him forever to. But what am i to do or say to him?? I need help. i love him &want to be with him but he need's to get help &he is welling to get that help know that i am going to have his baby. What am i going to do?? Should i go back to him and leat him be a dad and a loving boyfriend.. Also he asked me to marry him...&i told him to leat me think about it for a day or two...&he said it cool... So should i leat him be a husbend to me &become a good dad to this baby??? Plz help... Keap in mind that i do still love and want to spend the rest of my life with him... :]] :[[
2007-09-01 15:04:20 · 16 answers · asked by Caitlin K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So everone is asking me how old i am. Well i am 18 years old and yes i did go to school. and yes i did finish school. and for all you people that dont like my spelling get over it. That's just the way i type...So i am telling you all that i do love him and i know that he loves me to. He is willing to give up drinking for me and this baby.. He is the first and only person i have had sex with,, I am 18 years old and i think that if i wanted to have sex with him then I can do so. I am 18 years old and i wated for the right person to havd sex with and that's Brandon. He is the only person i have ever had sex with in my intire life..Also i am going to go to Coll. if you were all wondering.. Thanks for the support.. If you have enething elece to say then please do so.. Know that you know that i am 18 years old finish you'r answors...
Thank You!!! :]]
2007-09-01 16:23:37 · update #1
abort, your kid doesn't need an unstable household, if you get back together, and you still want to have kids later then you can you're still young
2007-09-01 15:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by rob415sfc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well Hun, It sounds like there are some issues going on. First he needs to get whatever help it is that he needs. Do not marry someone that is unstable, please. Have him show you that he loves you and that he is willing to do whatever to be with you and take care of you and that baby. No matter what you feel you have to worry about the baby first, you second, and him last. If he gets on a job and you can see he is doing all he can to support you then think about marrying him. You could maybe even agree to a long engagement. Whatever you both do hun do your best to stay in school as long as you can! Education will get you further in life and provide more for you and your baby- possibly your family. Wish you the best...! :)
2007-09-01 22:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by hottexanmommy2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you need a baby like you need a whole in you head. you nor brandon can take care our yourselves. how are you guys going to care for a baby. you need to go back or finish school and am sure he needs to the same thing. you need to look at your future and right now it is very bleak. get the focus off of brandon what about you. how do you expect to take care of this child. with no real job or education. if you do decide to have this child give it up for adoption and this point in your life you can not properly care for this baby as he deserves to be cared for. this why children shouldn't do adult thing. have sex. GodBless
2007-09-01 22:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you're going to be a mother, please try not to type like a 12 year old.
You need to tell him that this is HIS baby and he needs to be there for you throughout all of this... emotionally and financially.
If it was meant to be with him he would grow up and take responsability for this. If he backs down then hunny he wasn't the right guy for you or your baby and you will both be better off having a happy life without an immature a**hole.
The main thing is to take care of yourself and the baby...best of luck.
2007-09-01 22:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie it really sounds as if u are having a pretty hard time with all thas going on in ur life. B4 I answer, may I ask how old u are?? U can decline to answer that question if u like. It would help though.
2007-09-01 22:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steps to a happy life:
1. Stay together
2. Get married
3. Make sure there is enough money to support the three of you.(actually switch with step two)
4. Stay faithful
2007-09-01 22:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i could say is make sure that you and your boyfriend have things worked out and know what you are going to do before this baby comes. i was in your same situation and my ex promised me everything your boyfriend is telling you and then one day it changed and i never saw him again. i understand you love him and everything but make sure that this is what you really want. you guys are going to have a bundle of joy together and you dont want to bring a child into the world of disagreements and fighting
2007-09-01 22:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by LMN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brandon is not like his father, let him be a father to his child. It maybe more then he got as a child. you are both old enough to take care of it responsibly.
2007-09-01 22:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm damn honey you kept spelling take / tack and care / cair
what ever you decide, you need to stay the Fu@k in school. and you also need to look into filing for child support
2007-09-01 22:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by woodenturkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you got pregnant you should have known about his ability to support a family.
it might be best to stay with him since he is the father.
2007-09-01 22:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by ramni222 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋