Yesterday , My husband came home from work to tell me he wanted to go out with the guys. I didn't mind, thought maybe I could enjoy a night at home with out video games going on 24/7 at my house. He left around 8pm and I encouraged him to have a good time. At 4 am I woke to realize he wasnt home yet. He didnt answer his cell phone from 4 am to 8am, saying he didnt have reception. He showed up at 10 am this morning. His friends wanted to come in to use the restroom, and I said no way. I was so mad, that I worried all night about him, wondering if he was okay, or hurt, or in trouble. He pranced in here as if he did nothing wrong. I told him his behavior was unacceptable. Not that he went out with the guys, but that he never tried to call, or be concerned about me. He has been asleep all day, and I am wondering how to react at this point.
Any ideas?
2007-09-01 14:35:05 · 15 answers · asked by CHRISSY B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If my wife did that I would have packed her by now.
2007-09-01 14:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dimitar A 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Totally out of line and taking advantage of your trust! A married man has no reason to be staying out all night unless he is up to no good. You will never know the truth because his buddies were probably up to no good to and they will back one another up. He brought his friends in to use the bathroom because he was afraid to come in the house and face you alone. Besides your husband staying up all night he is sleeping the day away for as long as he can so that he still doesn't have to face you! I would make him tell you the truth and then as long as he wanted to stay married to me there would be no more nights out with his buddies and that would be the bottom line!!! You are suppose to be his best friend so any more nigts out on the town would be spent with you or all the friends would have to include you along if they wanted him along that bad. Take care and set him straight. Also he could have used a pay phone to contact you to.
2007-09-02 01:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be mad! Now you have to wonder if he was with another woman. Using the excuse he had no phone reception.......ha, what a bunch of bs that all is.
I would totally ignore him, find something else to do all together. Him as a married man has no right to do what he has done. Tell him if he would rather be single you can arrange it.
2007-09-01 21:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ideas?
Yeah...he's a fvcking jackass.
You should jump all over is no-good a.s.s for this. There is no excuse for what he did. Going out....yeah....fine....staying out late....yeah....fine....staying out all night?....NO...no cell phone reception....bull-fvcking-sh!t.
Tell that moron that he's got some answers to come up with. Think about this good and hard for a few hours or a day...no more...and then relentlessly hammer his a.s.s and see what Mr. d!psh!t comes up with. Chances are he won't know sh!t....because he's a assh0l3.
Prepare yourself....I hunt and seek and scrape for a GOOD woman and end finding nothing but demons, and a.s.s-licking d!psh!ts like this guy p!sses away someone who is probably a decent, good woman.
WTF
Make this idiot accountable. You don't deserve to be treated this way.
2007-09-01 21:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is unacceptable. He should have called you. Where could he have possibly gone not to have reception. Come on... those cell towers are pretty much everywhere. He needs to grovel back into your good graces. Don't accept those lame excuses.
2007-09-01 22:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by wondering 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is unacceptable. Your husband should come every night, I would be quite worried about what exactly he did. And how rude of his friends to take him out like that.
My husband doesn't like hanging out other people besides me and our families - and I'm the same way, we are homebodies and we don't need other people to keep ourselves amused. I can't imagine a guys night out - sounds awful!
2007-09-01 21:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not wrong that he stayed out all night...not at all. He's married, not dead, let him tear the night up if he wishes. I mean piss poor sloppy drunken mayham...if he wishes. However..however...as a married man, he should call and just let you know. That's what my wife would expect, and I understand that.
"Honey...I am piss wasted drunk and we are having blast...promise I won't drive"
"You jerk..."
"Oh, but I love you honey"
"Be careful...will you be careful"
"Yes dear...goodnight my little peach"
That's how it should go...and then you go to bed, and laugh at him when he wakes up and his head feels like the floor.
Best Answer...you know it is. :)
2007-09-01 22:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask him what he would do when you do this to him? as in im going to and we will see what you think ? going out with the guys should be no more than 4 hours or so and its nt something a married man needs to do if his marriage is at all important to him. the girls are to friendly and easy and a drunk man is in no place to say no. i would tell him next time you go or he doesnt.
2007-09-01 21:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
one night my husband spent the night out with the guys and made it home around noon the next day with his buddies I found out he went home with the bar tender.
2007-09-01 22:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by kittykat 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Fill a pillow case with bars of soap and beat him with it. It won't leave marks and you will feel much better lol.
2007-09-01 21:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by quit_callin_me_dumbass 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be mad if you like it changes nothing except your mood. What is that worth to you ?
2007-09-01 22:00:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋