2007-09-01 14:33:30 · 31 answers · asked by nelppik 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
support me
send flowers once and a while
load the dishwasher
do a load of laundry
bathe the kids
back massage from time to time
mow the yard
clean the litter box
grocery shop
clean out the attic
this list is for the married man
2007-09-09 00:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iron clothes,
does the dishes everyone once in a while
cleans the house or take part in helping to clean
cook sometimes
cleans up after himself
does the laundry
takes you out often to different location
tries to beat you at the catering
There is a game called Bam and what you do is try to beat your spouse at doing more than the other and if you win on that day you write bam on the refrigerator and then you keep racing, I heard it worked for a lot of people
rubs your toes
listens to you when you need someone to listen not hear but listen and give helpful adivce and add on to the heartache
hugs ands kisses and tells you how beautiful you are even when your spouse never feels it,
makes you feel good about yourself and not try to be the man who never lets you have a say in anything because woman are just as equal
there are soooooo many things hope I wasn't to formal or nothing, but you know play games and just have fun and not worry so much about the relationship
2007-09-08 21:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sky * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Be honest
2. Listen to the heart more than the words.
3. Put the needs of our relationship ahead of his other relationships
4. Pay the bills on time - calls for collection kill romance
5. Don't answer the phone in the middle of love making or arguments
6. Spend more time and money on me than his best friend
7. Touch me before he "needs" sex
8. Surprise me with something small I have mentioned now and then to show he was listening. - note, candy bar, needed object like a replacement battery, anything mentioned in the last conversation.
9. Don't put down my family- I came from that up bringing and am much like them.
10. Act like he is a member of a couple and not buy, sell, or make large plans without discussing it with the other half of the couple being committed.
2007-09-08 10:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by alioopisme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about top ten things,but here are a few in random order.The man that he is,facing the responsibilities of taking care of our family.Softly holding my hand in bed when sex is not the reason.Giving me a hug when I'm cooking.Always introducing me with pride to strangers.Opening doors for me.Caring for me when I'm sick.Being Mr. fix it,even tho he is not good at it.Asking my opinion about important things.Letting me know where he is,and he might be late so I don't worry. Call often just to say hello and how is my day going.Telling me I am Beautiful when I'm not.Being a good daddy.These are just a few reasons that I am the luckiest woman in the world.Life is so good when you are still in love after 30 years. He is truly my best friend and lover.
2007-09-09 21:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Make dinner without her asking.
2. Give a back/neck or foot massage without her asking.
3. Ask her what SHE wants to do that day or evening.
4. Have wild, hot, passionate sex without her asking.
5. make arrangements for a dinner out at an expensive restaurant without her having to hlp you do it.
6. Tell great jokes to make her laugh.
7. Give her some beautiful flowers.
8. Tell her how much you love her.
9. Tell her how beautiful she is.
10.Tell her she's the best thing that has ever happened to him.
2007-09-07 22:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by lacrosselover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of those things are that he supports me in decisions that I make that I will benefit from, and when there's trouble with his kids and I have to step up to the plate, he supports me there too =) with us, it's not like a candelight dinner or flowers, it's more about solving real life problems and coming up with solutions together, THAT'S romantic =) because that means he cares =)
2007-09-01 21:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I could pick ten they would be the following:
1. Surprising me with flowers occasionally
2. Taking me out on a "Date".
3. Wrapping us both up with a blanket on the couch to cuddle.
4. Singing me a love song
5. Fixing dinner and lighting candles with soft music for us.
6. Leaving me a poem or card in my e-mail
7. Giving me a back massage
8. Just holding me and kissing me
9. Burning me off a list of love songs that portray us.
10. Taking me to a bed and breakfast for one night with champagne.
2007-09-01 21:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. Send flowers without expecting something in return
2. lead me into a room with his hand at the small of back
3. open doors for me
4. hold my face softly with his hand while he kisses me
5. call me during the day just because he misses me
6. tell me how incredible he thinks that I am
7. plans special occasions because he wants to
8. when he makes love to me unselfishly, the way that he looks at me like I'm the only woman he's ever bee nwith and I can see that I blow his mind
9. the way he gets slightly jealous when i wear revealing clothes.
10. The way that he remembers everything that I say to him. he actually pays attention to me and the things that I say.
2007-09-08 12:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notes in my bag or the medicine cabinet
Flowers sent to work
Sweet emails during the day
Asking me out on a date like when we first met
Making moonlit picnic with wine or champagne
A walk on the beach
Taking me to watch a sunset together
Cleaning the house when I'm not home
A massage
A bubble bath together, with champagne
2007-09-02 18:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take me to dinner when its my day to cook
Draw me a bath and wash my hair
Candlelight and soft music
Ask me to dance in the middle of the livingroom
Buy me flowers for no reason
Get me present for no good reason
Take me for a night on the town
Leave me love notes on my windshield
Tell me he loves me and give me gentle kiss on my forehead
when all we're doing is standing in line
Greets me at the front door with a hug and kiss when he
knows I've just had hard day
2007-09-09 21:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by katmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋