stop bugging me about it,shes even got her kids after me,im afraid to bump into her! what kind of a snappy answer can i give her to get her off my back? or is there anything i can do to "avoid her"?
2007-09-01 14:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
did you avoid her ... did you wait a long time to buy this book & give it to her & now she wants to say what she needs to say...cause why else would she overeact with a newer book unless shes missing a screw... but if you want this to go away & want things to mend out i would go over there & talk to her ...tell her the truth then once its all out on both sides order some pizza just to give these kids another impression... but if these kids are fat fat please just buy them a toy instead...thxs
2007-09-08 01:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mature way to deal with this, would be to send an apology to her and admit you had lost the book but feeling that you had replaced the book out of pure sorrow that you had lost it. Saying that you had replaced the book and hoping that it brings you no hard feelings on the friendship that you treasure so much.
At least you are bringing to light that your mistake of losing the book made you feel bad, and that you at least replaced the book because it out of trying to keep your friendship alive and didn't want to lose that which you felt was more important. You might want to add that your didn't want lose a friendship over a book and you didn't know that a book meant so much to her. Your apology is in the sincerety of your heart and hope that the both of you can get past this heart ship because life it to short to worry over the loss of a book that has already been replaced.
That should place the ball in her court as to which way she would want to take your friendship.
If she is a true friend, she will accept your apology for losing the book and accept the fact that you have replaced the book and continue the friendship. If she don't, she never was a friend in the first place and you should move on with your life and be happy she isn't in your life.
Good Luck!
2007-09-01 15:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by humor4fms 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she comes up to you just tell her in plain english that you got her another copy and that is the best you could do and that shes done. and then you walk away. if she cna't take that maybe you will have ot get abit meaner i am not sure why she would be gugging you now if you repalced the book.
2007-09-07 16:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my answer would to be is to apologize for losing her book in the first place. Then ask would she please stop following you. Then give her the one that you bought and if she dont except it tell her to leave you alone tell her you done apologized once and you bought another book like the one that she had.
2007-09-09 07:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by ashfry101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least you have a newer one now. be thankful you even have one.
but that might be mean.
thinking otherwise, she may have reasons why she feels so strongly about it, perhaps a family thing or something like that.
try to be kind or if not just dont be friends with her
2007-09-01 14:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by remy_h_park 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋