My closest cousin sister is in love with one of my dirtiest old friend, he is not such a good boy, even my uncle, aunty & my parents knows that he is not a good boy, but they r listening to their daughter only, my cousin sister never listens to anyone also, their affair begun after i left my country & went out for studies, so now i need some ways to stop this, cus i dont like it, im afraid that my sister is gonna spoil her life cus of him, he doesnt even have a job & he is 2 years younger to her. my parents & my aunty n uncles r fools, my sister has forced her parents saying al good about the boy to get married each other.
i told em every truth about the boy but no one believes or listen to me, they think im saying this for jelous. so is there r anyways to stop this, suppose if they married i feel bad to look at that fellows face, & im afraid that my other cousin sister also might do the same thing like her in future, & da fellow who is gona marry my sister is crazy bout xxx & gals
2007-09-01 04:33:44 · 18 answers · asked by jim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Peoples change in love...
MAy b ur frnd become a good person...
just check it plzzzz
and if he doesn't
then
try to create M!SS UNDERSTANDING between them...
i know it is wrong but it saves ur sister's life...
say ur sister that THIS boy has already a G!rlfriend...
nd if this doesn't
then tell ur any friend who is girl to act for this...
to act like his EX-girlfriend...
hope tthis advice clears u...
2007-09-01 04:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by bali... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
caring for ur sister is a good thing but its not working for u as things r not in ur favour right now.try some tricks like trap him meeting some other girl ask some of ur friends to help u in this matter if it doesnot work then leave this matter to god.may b that guy changed himself after meeting ur sister.young age or no job is not a big problem they can be worked out.and if ur uncle aunty and ur sister are not ready to believe u then dont give urself a fukin pain leave it and think something else.but man ur problem is really very serious
2007-09-02 01:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by rishi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r sure that he is a bad boy then try to talk to that boy...n with ur sister anyway tell her that she is ur cousin ur holy relationship n that u stay inbetwwwen boys n know how he is....say everytime that u love n care for her......n if that boy has a second affair if he is doubletiming bring that into the light....or talk to a gud female friend who could flirt with him n record it on a tape so that ur sister can listen to that.....u r doing ur job as a brother n ur care has more power than a false love....otherwise if they get married n ur sis calls u up crying than bash that boy up.......n before marriage she should be independent wen not than talk to parents for that...she should study or hav a gud job n with the time sshe will get some experience........gud luck buddy
2007-09-01 05:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by miss.h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin had a best friend that fell in love with his sister. He asked the sister out, and they fell madly in love and ended up married. The friendship broke up because of my cousin's jealousy - he didn't want to share his friend - but the couple have been married for over 12 years now very happily. Just do what you think is best.
2016-05-18 21:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by ester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your concern for your sister. All I can I advice you is that you should take your sister out one day and tell her clearly that she is spoiling her life with this guy with some concrete proofs that might bring some sense in your sister. I know its a difficult task but thats what you need to do. And then live everything to fate. You should remember that you can not change somebodies destiny.
2007-09-04 14:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop and adopt "Wait & Watch policy".
1) As the situation is beyond your reach.
2) Might situation be changed after marrage.
If you will keep carry trying to break this then you will loose your relations with them in future.
2007-09-01 20:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sachin Belokar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing i am learning as i get older about people is that they are gonna do what they want regardless of how much you may want to help so...let them do want they want. it's called learning life's lessons. if it works out for the best then that will be a great lesson they as well as you have learned...that people can change for the best. if it doesn't work out for them then they still will learn also. they will learn that with love comes conditions in order to make it work and you will learn that you should just let people go their way and live their lives the way they want to...even if you don't agree with what they do. i wish you all God's love and blessings in your lives. :)
2007-09-01 04:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Leicha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to stop being a "control freak" and worry about yourself. Things that don't concern you should not worry you, and is out of your control. Secondly, you may want to polish up on your spelling and grammar...(smile) things could be worse......
2007-09-01 04:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her do what she wants to.If her or her family dont wont to hear it , than that should tell you that they are not gonna listen to anything you say about him.When it all goes wrong for her than you will know you did your best.Anyway love can be blind.
2007-09-01 05:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by lady bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is bad then u should protect yr sis.
sis r very important,my gf got a sis but i treat her as my sis if someone even try to do any harm even to my gf sis ,i will give him a punch,i wish u also have some guts and do the same.
2007-09-01 22:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋