My wife and I have an argument again and yelled at me as usual.
My male friend of mine whom we owed him a lot asked me a favor to drive for him this morning to look for a sofa & to run some errand. My wife approves it so we drove off. We gone for 3 hours and when I came back the house is a mess and the kids as well. So I asked her... she was talking to her mother the whole time I'm gone which she usually do... and it's ok to me. I told her she should excuse herself for a while to prepare the breakfast for the kids which is included to my daily task. Then she blow her top and start shouting to the kids and to me while were having the discussion..
I feel so upset up to now, coz she didn't even talk and kiss when I drop her to her work a while a go.
She's always like that whenever we have an argument and I'm the one who always cools down & not to answer back just to end the it bcoz If I don't she can go on 4ever yelling. I can't go out of this marriage coz I value the kids so much. SIGH
2007-09-01 04:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by Blue Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like there is more yelling then talking. You both need to learn to listen to each other and talk not yell. You think leaving is going to hurt the kids what do you think all the yelling they listen too is doing? Ask her to go to marriage counseling and learn some new skills for communicating..
2007-09-01 04:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are like that. Very often they blow up violently and then calm done quickly. get used to it if you have not already.
"I can't go out of this marriage coz I value the kids so much. SIGH" It is good that you value your kids so much. The best reason to stay married is because you value and love your wife.
2007-09-01 04:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by DrIG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that your wife obviously doesnt understand mothering as well as she should (based on what you said, of course)....however, if you just got in an argument, I dont know why you would expect her to kiss you....I personally want some space when I am upset with my bf....I love him just as much, but I dont feel like being physically close at that time...
2007-09-01 04:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Marie Catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stand a little firmer with your wife tell how you feel and to talk to her without a shouting match staying together just because of the kids will really end up hurting the kids they can sence when their parents arent happy and sometning is wrong they can tell by emotions, so i would really think about leaving her and make everyone happy.
2007-09-01 16:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard him! Women.... when we drive sometimes I put my hands on her knees and she's fine, other times she will yell at me for 10 minutes. Can't live with them or without them. My suggestion is learn the Jedi mind trick.
2007-09-01 07:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by loco scorp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she's a spoiled brat.maybe you have let her get away with this too long,buck up and be a man and tell her she as a wife have her own duties to perform.if she's any kind of a wife and mother she wouldn't have to be told this.
2007-09-01 04:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
2007-09-01 04:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋