likes me. She just told me this last night when I was over her house. Which makes things a little awkward....
I don't have feelings for him, but I flirt with him because it was fun and amusing and harmless (at the time).
What should I do?
2007-09-01 03:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by young n' free. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so now everytime i go to her house its a little weird.
2007-09-01 03:36:13 · update #1
keep on doing what you're doing, don't go too overboard, let your friend know you're not interested in her brother, but she'll probably get mad because it's her brother, but point out that if her brother and you were going to do something, it would really make things weird between you and her and your friendship is really important to you...say something like that...
2007-09-01 03:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now you know that there is no such thing as harmless flirting, it usually leads some where. You lead this guy on, now you have to let him down easy, without hurting his feelings. You will have to let him know that you only want to be friends, and not get serious, because his sister is one of your best friends and if something happened you don't want to loose her friendship.
2007-09-01 10:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I delt with a similar situation. Talk to your friend, tell her whats up. Explain how you feel over there now that you know. A true friend would talk to the brother, tell him you're not interested. Maybe you could even talk to him, tell him you're flattered, but that you don't want anything romantic with him. If you're worried about his feelings, just explain that his sister is your best friend and you don't want a relationship with him because you're worried it will interfere with your friendship. Worst case- talk to the parents or avoid him/going over there. Good luck!
2007-09-01 10:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by sskstru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend things are the same, like before you knew he liked you. Then it wont feel awkward. hope this helps:)
2007-09-01 10:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by A&F CHICK92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now do some 'harmful' flirting!
2007-09-01 10:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by priyabrata d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that you only want to be friends with her brother
2007-09-01 10:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋