This waitress who I like asked my mom where I was yesterday (my mom was at the restaurant without me). The waitress told my mom that I was sweet. I asked my mom to describe the waitress and the decription matched the one who I like. Now I don't know what to do. It's hard to hit on someone whom I only know at her workplace.
Anyway, last time I saw her in the restaurant I sort of ignored her to find out if the reason she paid attention was because I paid attention to her. But that wasn't the case. She caught my attention and spoke to me first when she finally got the chance, 'cause I was leaving the restaurant, going past her.
I don't want to do nothing because she is in an even tougher bind since she's the employee. I would forfeit going to the restaurant in order to date her for sure. But I'm not sure she likes me. What should I do?
2007-09-01 01:56:16 · 17 answers · asked by Robert B 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are the people answering? It's not so simple to ask someone out while she is working and required to be friendly to people. It could be annoying if she is uninterested! and word could get around the workplace!
Are you people thinking??
It's not the same when someone is working. Would you ask a waiter out and how would you do it? Are you like 12 years old?
2007-09-01 02:07:34 · update #1
Some of you missed this: "It's hard to hit on someone whom I only know at her workplace."
Just how do you ask the person out? Walk into the restaurant and ask "Will you go out with me?"
One of you seems to have missed this: "I don't want to do nothing" so don't say to wait.
How about a real answer? I guess I maybe should ask again and be more clear next time. I had the info in the question, but people lack time to pick it up well.
2007-09-01 02:12:05 · update #2
Ask her if you can meet up outside of work, or at least drop her your number so she can call you to arrange something.
Also, there's no reason you can't go to there if you have a relationship- just as long as she isn't too distracted and does her job.
2007-09-01 02:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you'd like to get to know her more you need to get down to the restaurant and support her job! Smile at her and make friendly conversation. Show her that you are interested in what she has to say. Once you're there find out when she's working again. Show back up and speak on some things she talked about last time. This will show her that you are interested and interested/remember things about her. I'd do this a few times before asking her to hang out unless she asks you first. Good luck!
2007-09-01 09:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by ecetwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the best answer will come from you,But soon as know according to the info you gave ,she likes you or maybe she thought you like her too, But you have to give her a chance to show her if she really do,it worth trying neither living it hanging,who knows maybe you'll end up being husband and wife.give it a try,Try to work things out maybe you'll be fine.
2007-09-01 09:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by lszondi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if she asked your mom where were you, obviously she likes you. Remember, even though you only see her at this place, ask her if she wants to get together outside her workplace. And dont ignore her, or she is gonna think you dont like her. Even a simple hello can start something cool.
2007-09-01 09:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by GEARHEAD101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to her restaurant...sit in her section...order something...then ask her if she'd like to go for a walk with you after work...
in other words...ask her out! is this really so tough to figure out??
and you are right...don't cause any trouble where she works, cuz that will finish any hope you have with her...but i think it would be ok to quietly sit in her section at the restaurant and ask her if she'd like to go out some time. if she says yes, problem solved...if she says no...well, at least then you will know.
2007-09-01 09:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by waterlin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to put everything aside and just ask her out, she likes you, she is interested in you and no one has a problem with this but you.
You have to relax, and I can sense the tension in your question, just relax, take a deep breath, swallow your pride and ask her out.
Life is way to short to worry about the what if's???
2007-09-01 09:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her number & met outside
Dont date n e same restaurant
Come on!
2007-09-01 09:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by NY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out, and if it doesnt work out, so move on. If it does, thats good. You've got to take risk to gain something. Ask her out. Good luck!
2007-09-01 09:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While she is paying attention to you, ask her out to coffee or something. You'll find out pretty quickly.
2007-09-01 09:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by NavyBrat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a chill pill...b friendly n ask her...alls upto her
2007-09-01 09:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by SwEEEt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋