of girls who let you sleep with them on your first date?has a long term relationship resulted from it?I personaley would run a mile from any male who would try his wicked way on our first date!does it put any of you girls out there off as well.i'm not condoning anyone who does sleep together on their first date its a free country after all and my mates done it a few times as well!thanks
2007-09-01 21:34:36 · 12 answers · asked by boro lass 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the situation, if you have been friends before you started dating it's not so hard to believe.
if it's a first date with a total stranger, i would disapprove it tho as the girl would asks i might not say no.. :D
2007-09-01 21:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Chewy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are going to have a hard time answering this one, the reason why is because they dont want to shoot themselves in the foot by telling thier secret. They would take casual sex alltogether if they could sleep with as many girls as possible and the girls would then go away forever and never return. Fact is, it dosent work that way. They have a hard time falling because most have this idea of " The one " which is cooked up in thier brains and if girls slip out of the borders of thier "one" perfect girl often times that gets girls dropped too...see how it can be very difficult. Now I have been someones " One " married 7 years. The problem that broke us up was his intrest in heroin, which 15 years ago he picked up the habit and hid it from me because I was and still at times am very very gullible. I was also engaged 2 other times so I think I understand the proccess, but the only way to make it to engagement or past the first date is to keep your knees glued together...for real. The guys may or may not agree and I know I sound like a *****, but I am trying to help out some potentially GOOD girls from being ruined by a bunch of a**holes. Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-09-02 04:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally these relationships don't last either the guy just wanted sex or the girl moves on. However i have known a few relationships to start like this where the chemistry between the two is perfect and they get carried away.
2007-09-02 04:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the examples when people stayed together forever after the first time. So there are variants.
2007-09-02 05:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Like 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not into that but if she is that's fine. I'd politely decline and ask for a rain check. There are factors that would lead to my consent such as generous amounts of alcohol but not while I'm sober.
2007-09-02 04:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the chemistry.
Sometimes the attraction is so great that sex just had to happen.
I think that it would be wrong to judge a person based on the fact that they gave in to their attraction.
2007-09-02 04:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have that problem every girl i have slept with has gone out with me for at least two months.
2007-09-02 06:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Lifeguard Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never sleep with someone on our first date, for starters you dont no where they'v been or if they do it on every date they go on :S i personally would feel really dirty if this happened. m.c
2007-09-02 08:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Wild-@-Heart ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my plan has always been to NEVER have sex with them. I think they ALL try to go as far as they can the first date.
2007-09-02 04:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by duuh 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
buy a dictionary and look up the word "condone"
2007-09-02 04:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by grinny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋