Dad passed 6 months ago and i am truly hurting beyond grief.I look at the stars and cry all the time and i feel so lonely.I want to see him and give him just one more hug if i could,i'm broken.
2007-09-01 21:03:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm so sorry. I lost my father some years ago too. I also lost my best friend recently. I know i hurts like hell. Just remember for everytime you cry find some memory of your father that makes you laugh. So you cry a little and then laugh some more.And remember he is always with you so always live your life to make him proud.
2007-09-01 21:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lila1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would he want you to be this miserable? Would he want you to be empty of all emotions beyond grief and sadness? NO.
Think about the best things he taught you. Imagine his arms holding you now, and he is saying I love you and want you to be happy. Do not waste what he has given you in love by being so broken. Take his strength and make it your own. Take the love he has given you and share it. He will never be gone as long as you remember him and use the gifts he gave to you in your own life.
My dad died 10 years ago and while I miss him terribly, I know I am making him proud by moving forward and teaching my kids some of the same things he taught me.
The sharp pain eases into a dull ache but you have to actively try to make life better for yourself. As he would want you to.
2007-09-01 21:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`m sorry to hear about your dad.
I know it`s not the same/ my grandfather raised me. He died a few years back. I used to stare at the stars and pray/ I know he`s in a better place. See, he got really sick- every time I seen him he looked like he was always suffering. He was in that much pain..
Not one day doesn`t pass where I don`t think about him.
He will always be in my heart..
You will always have your memories of your dad.
Look at the stars-- and pray.......
2007-09-01 23:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by candy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my dad 11 years ago. You have my sympathy. In my situation, my dad had not spoken to me for eight years before he died. It was because he held a grudge over something really stupid. I tried to see him one last time before he died to make amends, but my stepmother had the hospital security escort me out. I just wanted him to know that I loved him no matter what, so that he could feel more peaceful in his final hours.
After he died, I cried for years. I wanted to know why I wasn't good enough for my dad. Well, I have since come to terms with that issue, and I am now at peace with him in my heart. Sure I miss him, I always will. But I KNOW he is in a beautiful place now, so I'm happy for him. And I know I'll see him again someday...
It's okay to miss your dad, and it's okay to grieve. But try to think of how your dad would want you to remember him, and how he would want you to feel. He wouldn't want you to hurt! So remember the good times; in doing that you will honor him.
2007-09-01 21:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what your going through my mom passed away a week ago and i didn't get a chance to say goodbye we were very close and i feel like a part of me died with her i am looking for a support group right now and i think you should do the same. i am so sorry for your loss take care and good luck
2007-09-01 21:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are upset and hurting, you are just grieeving, which is normal human reaction(it would be more abnormal if you didnt feel upset. You were obviously very close to your father, maybe you should consider talking to someone about it (a counsellor) you might feel better then.
2007-09-01 21:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by I Am a Purry Christmas Kitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww thats fricken sad ,, =[
I dnt know what to say becoz i still have my dad.
Id be lost without him.
It must be hard for yu especially when fathers day comes around. Try & stay positive,, Look at them stars and think how lucky you are to be able to know hes one of them. If it helps. Pray before yu go to bed. Tell him how your days been.
Goodluck Darl.
2007-09-01 21:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you dad passed away. I don't know the feeling but I guess we have to let them go, we don't owned them. We should be very thankful they were part of our lifes.
Now your dad is resting.
I know it's easy to say but we have to be strong to be able to let go because we have to keep on living.
I believe he is happy, and is proud of having you in his life time.
Pray
2007-09-01 21:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by SORA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your father is not dead, he just exited his body. He may even contact you somehow. Be on the lookout for subtle signs.
Trust that he is OK and I'm sure he wants you to move on and be happy because it is our nature to change this way. You and I will do the same thing.
2007-09-01 21:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by Starte Christ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he ever give you something special to him, or something that you liked and he gave it to you specialy?
If so, hug that.. its the closest you can get.
2007-09-01 21:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋