I met this guy online about 6 months ago. He's older than me, but we hit it off at once. We're best friends and we both know we have feelings for each other, but we avoided the subject. But I like someone else and my bf knows about him and he's jealous even though he doesn't admit it. A week ago, he told me about some girl he met and he kept asking if I was jealous. I really wasn't. He kept pushing it and I got angry. We both said some hurtful things and finally he wanted to say he loves me but he decided he didn't want to make it worse for me and the other guy. We left it at that because he had to travel for 2 days. He's been AWOL for a week and I know it's OK because I've been talking to his friends. I don't know if they're telling the truth, tho. I tried e-mailing him and SMSing him but he won't reply. Now I know I love him and I really want to talk to him. What do I do?
2007-09-01 22:08:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel, and vice versa. The reason he may be jealus is because its online, and he cant be there with you, so its hard for him to be a part of the picture, only he can text or voice messege or video cam, regarldess, he may feel abit insecure about this,
Online relationships are hard, i know this from experiance, however, i would never ever give up on my girl for ne reason, regardless of online or not, she has been the most honest, caring loving girl, who i greatly respect that i have ever met.
so you have to ask yourself, how do you feel, can your love overcome a minor obstacle,
i wish you the best of luck.
2007-09-01 22:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by kaneselo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you can love someone you've never met! And how do you know he is being truthful about everything? Not everyone tells the truth.
I would say to stop the communication with the online guy, and concentrate on the one you know in person.
2007-09-02 05:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well what about your real boyriend first?
it's hard you can't do anything if he won't respond to your messages. Just keep tring I guess. Tell him you love him if that's the truth.
2007-09-02 05:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by duuh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know but if you want a new online bf (online only) i am open
2007-09-02 05:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋