I believe I may have lost a friend. We did have words, once, but I'd like to bury the hatchet. I'm sorry for what I've done to upset or offend him. I've tried getting in touch with him, I think somewhere around four times in the past three months, and I've had no response. The thing is, due to software bugs, I don't know for sure that he's even gotten my messages. I seriously doubt he'd be the type to just ignore a message. I really think if he still wanted me to go jump in a lake, he'd say so.
If I should keep trying at all, how often, and for how long? I don't want to harass him, but I miss him very much.
This is an online friend, by the way. We live hundreds of miles away, so it's not like I can knock on his door.
I appreciate your well-thought-out answers.
2007-09-01 23:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Lovebird♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He must be really hurt.
I don't know what was said but he must not have thooght of you that way.
Send him one more heartfelt apology and a note of regret and and tell him exactly how you feel.Let it all out then let it go.
If he does not answer you it's he's loss,you tried your best.
I know how you must feel.
You really need an Ok from him. xo
Good Luck!!!! I hope you don't dwell on it forever.
2007-09-02 00:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would say that he did get if not all, but at least one of your emails.
If it really means that much to you, I would keep sending him every other week for as long as it takes if he does not respond. Until you yourself realize that it is just not worth the hassle, and he is out of your system (emotionally I mean).
No one can tell you, only you can make that decision. But this is my well thought out advice.
Truth to tell, you never really met the guy. Who knows, maybe it is better off that you leave well enough alone. There are so many weird stories you hear on the new about on line relationships.
Good luck, and stay safe.
2007-09-02 07:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know what happened between you and your online friend but it think it would be better if you give yourselves time and space for now.maybe your friend is still on the process of healing the wounds you caused him if there's any.if that person really considers you as a "friend",im sure in time,your friend will get in touch with you.Remember,forgiveness is one of the most important thing in friendship.
2007-09-02 06:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by ien 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i only shall tell you that when hearts broke, its difficult to make them again same position. i think its difficult to bring him again in your life , or may be he liking you still. but you both not understand each other till now.try to keep touch to him.and wait for him if u really love him, because im facing same situation , that my gf not contacting me from 3 to 4 days, i try my level best to contact her, but i dont know what is going on, becasue i didnt get her any response, but i love her more then my life. wish you best of luck.
2007-09-02 07:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ah.well online friendship doesnt allways work,so girl leave it 4 awhile like a month or so,set up a new account and pretend ur somone else,and see if he replys 2 ur messeges .then ull see if he was really getting ur messeges.
hope i helped!
2007-09-02 07:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well ignore him and find a new one.
2007-09-02 07:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by boo! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋