I moved to a new school at the start of this term.
I had my eyes on this guy thats in 2 of my classes.
We started speaking via email. Because we have ICT together. Then i got his number & called him one night & told him how i felt about him, turns out he had the same feelings for me. Weve started dating. Its been a week today' Not a long period of time. But i have NEVER EVER felt this way about a guy before. I would seriously marry him & he said hed marry me. Yerr were 15 old enuff to know what love is. Ive had plenty of relationships but none have felt so right. I tell him anything that comes to my mind. Hes amazing. makes me feel so happy & loved. We watched a movie together on friday night at mine & when we kissed it felt like i was in another world. I dont know how else to put it.
Is this to early for true love?
Please dont write pathetic & immature comments.
Truthful answers would be greatt. :] Thanks.
2007-09-01 21:06:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's ok to fall in love and enjoy the passion as long as you know how to be responsible for that, like pregnancy? you were able to understand love probably in your own level of understanding. you would understand more later, in your own pace. you have to remember though that there's more to life than the thrill of loving. i've seen so many that their life had gone to a stop after having a baby. please don't go towards that and be responsible. can you imagine yourself stuck home with your kids while your friends are enjoying single life and happy with their careers and able to spend for what they want, see places, and go out with the eligible bachelors around? think about these things and put yourself on the advantaged side. always try to go one step forward, and maybe your mr. right and you will have your dream life together in the future, rather than a shattered one.
ok, ok. let me tell you my story. i was in love just like you. graduation came and i had to choose between working in another place or staying with this guy. i chose to advance, and i was thinking he could also advance in his life and we move on together later. years later i found him with minimum income, his girlfriend pregnant that he could hardly support, and he looks up at me and tells me you shouldn't have left we should have had a life together. I said, yeah... I told myself, i'm glad i left, because he didn't want to do anything for himself, and could he be more unattractive to me after that. i was so happy i didn't get pregnant when we were much younger, and it feels good to know that you have choices. but if you ask me if it was passionate and feel-good romance, o yes it was! WAS. but after i saw him again i knew i deserved something better.
so your question again was 'too early'?? who are we to say? maybe too early to get tied but just right to enjoy. so just take it easy. the world is huge, and life does not revolve in your bedroom when watching tv with him. again, just take it easy. who knows, maybe it's really him, but wouldn't it be great, too, if everything falls in the right place? kiss more, then you can tell the difference, and you'd be able to tell real love from something that isn't. have choices.
2007-09-01 21:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Desiree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think it is too soon for love. But not to soon to know you really connect with someone. An amazing love and relationship could grow outta this, but you gotta give it time to make sure its not just infatuation right now! But it seems like you really like something in each other and I think it has the chance to turn into a really exciting relationship.
Good Luck.
2007-09-02 04:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by jbahhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think you may be moving a little fast. I fell in love the first time when I was 16 so I won't say you're too young. But don't be in too big a hurry to grow up and get married. You have your whole lives ahead of you. Good luck!
2007-09-02 04:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by countrygirl30143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it a little more time to call it love. The word love can mess with your mind alot, and end up fooling you. Just be careful and be wise about what you call love. Because it may hurt in the long wrong. You need some time to find out what is REAL for you.
good luck.
2007-09-02 04:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying you don't have really strong feelings for him, but I think a lot of times people confuse love with infatuation. Of course he makes you feel really good and your happy with him, but only time can tell if it's true love. Just enjoy your time together and don't worry about the other stuff til later.
2007-09-02 04:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Gina R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nice to have a relationship that you can be yourself right at the start. you should know you self we enough to know when you are getting the feeling that you are right for each other. but Your still not old enough to know that this is someone you would marry. Good luck to the both of you
2007-09-02 04:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never early for true love. if you feel it than you know it's true, im young too well older than you ...and this guy that i was with ... i really felt like i didnt " love " him i just liked him but when i was seperated from him i really knew that he would and will always be one of my true loves. so it's all really how you feel, btw i kept in contact with him and we are good friends. just go with your heart !!! good luck BUT REMEMBER sometimes it could just be a huge crush dont get to lovestruck just yet....that is unless you believe in love at first sight...just be careful!!! good luck ;)
2007-09-02 04:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Diane D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think love comes by age, anyone can fall anytime, anywahere to anyone. Age doesn't matter. Good luck!!!
2007-09-02 04:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Clauds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fall in love with falling in love fall in love with the guy u want
2007-09-02 04:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by puppy dog 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋