We've been going out for 5 years and we were supposed to talk about how our relationship needs to be improved and he completely stopped talking to me, this has never happened before. I used to not pick up for him for weeks when I was mad at him, but he's never done this to me. We had plans to talk on Wednesday so it has been a week since we talked. I called him 4 times throughout the week and I left a message asking him to call me back on Sunday. He still hasn't. Do you think he's over me?
2007-08-28 04:21:50 · 10 answers · asked by JTOdapizzLE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm sure he still cares... we just don't toss our feelings into a trash can to get rid of them... people remain in our hearts a long time, even after a break up.
you two seem to have power struggle issues...
maybe he's not "over you" but perhaps he has decided it's not worth the effort anymore?
you two need to talk. ask him if he wants to move on or try?
that's the best you can do, hon... all the best.
2007-08-28 04:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you but if he doesn't pick up after himself now especially when he knows it bothers you, he never will. The question really is, if you got into a permanent relationship, do you want to pick up after him for the rest of your life without complaining??? Trust me, it's an issue that if you cannot get beyond it, it will go a long way to wrecking your relationship.
2007-08-28 11:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by bobbijo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR A FIVE YEAR RELATIONSHIP THIS SOUNDS VERY IMMATURE. MORE FROM HIS PART THAN YOURS. THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS CALL HIM AND LEAVE HIM A MESSAGE TELLING HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM AND THE SITUATION. MAYBE HE JUST THINKS YOU WANT TO MAKE A STEP HES NOT READY TO MAKE YET. SO JUST EXPLAIN TO HIM YOUR SIDE OF EVERYTHING. AND IF HE CALLS BACK GOOD. IF HE DOESNT THEN YOU KNOW WHAT HE'S ABOUT!
2007-08-28 11:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by DatDrMaHeLuvs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take my word for it, but it sounds like he has either dumped you w/out saying or feels that there may be pressure to step the relationship up to something more that he may not be ready or willing to do right now!!
2007-08-28 11:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by JaM 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. I would give him his space. It sounds like he needs it. Give him another week and try and call then. If he doesn't answer, go to his place, confront him, and then leave.
2007-08-28 11:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by celestial316 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not over you giving you the silent treatment just play aong with it in the end one of you will crack :) hang in there
2007-08-28 11:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he probably doesn't wanna bother anymore. you sound like a real drama queen
2007-08-28 11:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time for you to move on hun, find happiness, he has, five years is a long time i know, it will get better.....trust me on this
2007-08-28 11:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you & he are done and it's time to move on.
2007-08-28 11:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling, he'll wonder what you're up to and come around
2007-08-28 11:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋