ok my boyfriend and I talked ok on saturday, but on sunday he didn't call me at all I would call him up and all i would was the ringing thing ok then I called him back at 11 at night and I would just get his voicemail yesterday called him and heard ringing he got me a cell phone and it was working till yesterday at 8 he suspended it....I don't know if that counts as canceling....because if he did wouldn't it say "sorry but this number is not a working number?" well I was worried so I talked to his cuz and his mom, but they wouldn't get a reach of him...i called his mom and she answered her house phone and asked her if she know's whats up with him she kinda sounded like if she did know, but she told me not worry he will come around he needs to cool off....oh and before all of this on sunday he always plays baseball and this past sunday there was no game at all....so I don't know what to think he just stoped calling me..didn't brake up didn't give me any reasons!!! What should I think??
2007-08-28 04:26:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I started leaving him voicemails and txts but he didn't reply at all and he dosen't pick up my phone calls....
and he knew there was no game on Sunday and I was like ok then where was he....idk his mom said that he is not cheating on me and she knows that for a fact so idk what to think
2007-08-28 04:34:00 · update #1
I'm 21 years old and his 20
and yeah he has a job started school yesterday and also started working on finalcial services in real estate!!
2007-08-28 04:37:43 · update #2
My advice is for you to take some time for yourself, and give him his time. ( He might want some.) Guys are very confusing at times, and some times they just need to find out what they want on their own. So stop calling him, try to get yourself into something like hang out with your friends do work, play a game anything to keep your mind off him for a while. And see if he calls you, if he does then he cares and might of had a mini relasp. And when he does call ask him what's going on, and tell him how it made you feel. Your to young to stress about anything like this. Good Luck! =)
2007-08-28 04:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ ~ lele ~ ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I doubt you are the reason,
this happens a few times in a few different ways.
he probablly is stressed about stuff (who knows what) maybe its his sports, his job, paying the bills, who knows?
i doubt its that your breaking up.
maybe its a family problem and his mom knows about it, but you arent supposed to know.
or maybe its a death.
and he's not talking to anyone. so its not you.. don't worry.
in a few days i'm sure everything will be fine again.
2007-08-28 11:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk sounds like theres something hes not telling you give it a couple days maybe a week and then try talking to him maybe write him a note or email him instead of calling. you guys might need to take a break for a while you know work everything out and then see what happens. i really hope everything works out ok for you
2007-08-28 11:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by sexythang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you need to slow down and think about this. You sound young. What could have happened that made him angry? Rmemebr to include resaons that don't include you. Maybe when he bought you a cell phone his mom got angry and made him cancel it, so he is angry.
2007-08-28 11:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberlee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, but just give him his space.
Eventually he will get a hold of you and the two of you can talk about what is going on.
2007-08-28 11:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by sheenabeenaaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mothers know best. maybe he needs time to cool off as you said. give him sometime, this could be a good break for you as well. i dont know your situation, but it seems like you might do well to take some time off and relax.
but thats me, i could be reading it wrong.
2007-08-28 11:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by skate baker fool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's dumped you in a cowardly way...and your neediness probably pushed him away. Don't define yourself through your 'boyfriend' - be your own person. Be happy even when you're not with him.
2007-08-28 11:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by deejgck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's getting some tail elsewhere..........His actions are common for compulsive cheaters. You need a new guy. Stop calling him. forget he existed and move on. he'll be sorry one day
2007-08-28 11:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, don't involve a boyfriend's family in your issues... it makes for an uncomfortable situation. and besides, it's not their problem...
move on..... he apparently doesn't want to talk with you?
you can do better anyway.
2007-08-28 11:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard but give him some time. Or go over to his house and confront him.
Good luck!!!!!
2007-08-28 11:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by Spokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋