i can't talk to my mom anymore. evertime i do she insults me. i don't know what to do anymore.?

Question

so, i know my parents are going through a tough time. my dad's job is on strike and my mom is med. disabled. income is low, and my dad's parttime job isn't cutting it. they can't pay the bills (and won't let me send money) and try as they might they can't sell their house. i know they're going under, but my mom takes it out on me. every time i call with good news she seems to care very little. and when i ask her about it she throws up in my face that she's obviously not in a happy mood with everything that is going on. i feel bad for my parents but if they don't let me do anything how can my mom keep yelling at me about things i can't control? i just feel like not calling anymore because all of our conversations end in an argument. she's even started calling me stupid! mind you i'm a college student and an armed forces veteran. i don't percieve myself as being stupid, and i'm sure most others wouldn't. i'm just at my ropes end and don't know what to do anymore.

Answer 1

I would call, but I would not talk to her about anything to do with yourself. Let her vent her feelings, without comment. At the end of the conversation, ask if they need anything, and if she gets snippy end the conversation with " I love you" we'll talk later. Then end the conversation. Noone wants to made to feel like they are a loser, and sometimes pride can get in the way. Think how you would feel.

Answer 2

Tough times are hard on people would you rather they focused their anger on eachother.

Sometimes we have to take a little heat and understand that it's nothing personal.

Hey everything is always my fault and I know they just need someone to blame.
So the name No Good is my personal attack against them.
; )

Answer 3

Record your self making love to a dildo and email me the video then everything will work out a I promise.

Answer 4

dont ccall her ..when she asks why just be like everytime i do u scream at me wats the point.