Please give me some advice, as i really need it.. i don't know what to think or what to believe....
2007-08-28 02:12:27 · 43 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore him ;)
2007-08-28 02:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Amy ;) 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well first of all, don't panick! It's not like you know if he's done something or having seconds thoughts for sure yet. Don't go calling him constantly either. Clearly he just wants some time to himself. It's possible that he could be mad at you for something you may have done. My suggestion is to go ahead and give him the time he needs to come around. Maybe after a few days (3 or so) give him a call and see how's he's doing. If he doesn't answer the phone, then leave him a message letting him know that you've just been thinking about him and wanted to see if he'd like to hang out with you that night or something. Don't leave a long drastic message asking him why he isn't picking up him phone, don't send him an email asking the same thing. He wants his space. so give it to him.
As far as believing, you don't have proof of anything yet. When you both are finally on speaking terms, ask him what's up.
2007-08-28 02:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good morning Christina....There could be various reasons on why your bf could be ignoring you. You weren't too specific so I'm going to guess on some answers. Is he still in school? If so, maybe he has a lot of courses to where his mind is in his school work. Also, maybe something is going on at home to where his family needs him and he's focusing on the 'home front'. If he has a job maybe there are issues at work to where he needs to focus on his job. Have you or him recently argued? Maybe he needs his space for awhile. There could be so many reasons on why he might be ignoring you but don't sit and dwell that he might be seeing someone else since this may not be the case. You need to ask him why and maybe he'll tell you the reason. Hope this has helped. Have a great day!
2007-08-28 02:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - Ignore him too for a while (say a week or 2) and see if he'll come back to his senses.
Second - If he doesn't, ring him up and tell him you need to discuss and sort things out.
Third - Ask him if there was anything you did ......... and compare notes. If he did say u did something wrong, apologise and move on cos believe me you time is going to come.
Fourth - After the talk talk and he's still ignoring, pls no love for the haters. just move on with your life girl (you tried!)
Fifth - Hook up with the girls, get a new hair color, get your nails did and buy a fierce stiletos and hit the parties. Makes u confident and u meet new pple.
Trust me! it worked for me ...........Good riddiance
2007-08-28 02:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by lady b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This probably depends a lot on your age. If you are younger, it is possible he has lost interest. Being younger, it is probably a better idea to look for someone new rather than changing your ways to accomodate his selfishness. If you don't mind playing games, you can start flirting with his friends and other guys to make him jealous which can be fun but I do not encourage it.
If you are older, it is possible that he is losing his physical attraction to you. You may want to surprise him with a sexy outfit or even ask him to go somewhere with you then surprise him with a stop at vicki's and try on a few different outfits for him. Good luck!
2007-08-28 02:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Z X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend had the same problem her boyfriend was ignoring her with her freinds around and stuff so she talked it over with him organized trips out with him into town and they soon sorted this issue out try and talk to him the best method is talking dont let him do all the chasing try and resolve the issue if the relationship isnt working out move on!This is harsh but there a lot of nice guys out there!
2007-08-28 02:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him! Let him see that you aren't worried about him just as much as he isn't worried about you. I did this last night when my bf was acting funny. So i ignored him the whole night got up early did what I had to do and left. So now his head is f**ked up because he dont' know what hit him. Now he's at work texting me asking me what's wrong.
Oh nothing, it's just a great day that's all.
2007-08-28 02:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it may be time for an ultimatum. Be calm though. Ask him for a few moments of his time. Tell him you feel like he is ignoring you. Ask if there is a reason. Ask if he would like to continue as boyfriend and girlfriend. No pressure, though. Just calmly ask him straight up. He will answer, either in words, lack of words, or body language. Good luck.
2007-08-28 02:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by ready4sea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your perception he is ignoring you but perhaps something else entirely is going on. If you act on your perception without checking the facts you might make a big mistake. You could check the facts with him by asking him in a non judgemental way 'honey, you know latelly you havent been saying very much, I feel as if you are ignoring me' and see what he says in reply.
2007-08-28 02:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard to do, but just carry on and ignore him back. Do NOT call him or anything, if he happens to call, don't answer, do not be too available. Trust me! Let him think that you may have something better going on and make him work for it. If he really cares he will smarten up, if not forget him and move on.
2007-08-28 02:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several reasons:
1. He is feeling crowded.
2. He is losing interest.
3. He is interested in someone else.
4. He is very busy.
Best thing to do, though, is to let him ignore you for 4-5 days, and then ask him directly.
2007-08-28 02:16:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋