me and my boyfriend have been togeather for a year and a half. and it started out good then about 2 months into it we went to the shore(nj) and we got a hotel room and i dont remeber what we were fighting about but i kicked the trash can that we was holding on to and we started to fist fight well i socked him right in his eye and he griped me up by my neck. he never said sorry he told of his friend cuz he though it was funny. he made me look like a moron. anyway..so after that we would alway fight and and he would alway grip me up.so then he had a 35,000$ car and his mom would always b*tch to him about the car payment(hes 23 yrold and the car is under his mom's name) so by this time i was living with him and all we had at the time was the exsect amouth money that the car payment was and his mom took it(his mom would keep him in her room for 2hrs at a time everynight wile i would sit in his room, so rude) so he came back and i told him that he would have givin her half cuz he getting...
2007-08-28 01:47:07 · 18 answers · asked by ARMY WIFE TO BE 2012 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
in a week from that day. and so she sold the car from him and now almost a year later everyday we b*tchs to me about a car(we share my car). i tryed to get his old car and i couldnt get aproved for the loan. and i just cant take hearing his voice and we live togeather and i just dont know what to do. oh and i though i was pregnant like 8months after we started giong out and he was forcing me to get an abortion. i love this guy so much!! what should i do. i just can take his mouth and the b*tching and compaining!!!! HELP!
2007-08-28 01:50:13 · update #1
oh and i found this girl number in his wallet and it was his ex how he was seeing until i found out about it. he cancled out first date to see this girl(she has a big nose) no lie and im not saying that cuz im jeliouse.
and our sex life suck. we use to have sex everyday like 7x a day im i dont even want to kiss him anymore!
2007-08-28 01:53:28 · update #2
AND YOU KNOW HE DOSNT WANT TO BE WITH ME HOW???
2007-08-28 01:59:44 · update #3
and you love him? sorry but its time to love yourself first. he depends on mommy and you and treats you like crap. nope, give him back to mommy and you go start your own life before he ruins yours. NEVER LET A MAN ABUSE YOU
2007-08-28 01:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by vmoore708 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure this is not what you want to hear, but this is going down the wrong path. Neither of you respect the other. If you marry him it will only get worse between the both of you. Leave now while it is cheap and no kids are invested. If you get married and it does not change, you could have children and then have to pay for a divorce. I have a hard time understanding you say you love him. You really need to think more of yourself. Stand tall and on your own. This is not love at this point. If you love someone, they would not do the things that he is doing. Good Luck!!
2007-08-28 09:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by D TRAIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only been together less then two years and he is acting like this? It may only get worse as time goes on. This situation has so many problems I don't think it can be fixed nor do I think its worth fixing. From what you said there is physical abuse, you can't stand to be intimate (it almost sounds like he is raping you from what you said) and you can't stand to hear his voice. He has a real problem with his mom and he sounds like he has poor money handling skills if he is buying an expensive car. And having a baby in this relationship would be a disaster waiting to happen. I would suggest you end your relationship now and move on with your life. I think that though you love him your with a guy that has no respect for you and has no idea how to properly treat a woman. He is abusive and childish. Leave before it gets worse. I will pray for you and I wish you good luck.
2007-08-28 09:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Domestic Violence between the two of you and you want to stay in this relationship why??? don't get it never will understand it if your not happy with this man simply pack up your things and move on and away from him, what do you need an invitation? get the hell out of there.. Your in for a life of misery with this man and his family.. think of having to live in this type of violence for twenty years, an everyday struggle and fighting.. it will make you age faster and end up full of regrets I can't imagine how some women stay in situations like this.. LEAVE HIM AT ONCE.. Your not for each other.. NO COUNSELING NO TALKING NO FIXING FORGET IT.. NOTHING IS GOING TO WORK YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS DOOMED AT THIS TIME.. TOO MUCH VIOLENCE.. OR I CAN GIVE YOU THIS OTHER ADVICE FOR WOMEN THAT REFUSE TO UNDERSTAND THIS... IF YOU DECIDE TO KEEP GIVING THIS RELATIONSHIP ANOTHER TRY... TAKE IT OR LEAVE HIM.. IS YOUR ONLY CHOICE. GOOD LUCK.
2007-08-28 10:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay together!! If your not smart enough to know that your not supposed to hit each other and that your relationship is doomed then you deserve each other. If his mom was smart she would kick both of you out so both of you can live in the real world. If your boyfriend has trouble paying a car payment what makes you think he will get any better in the future! Your lives are filled with drama, it can be addicting and never change.
2007-08-28 09:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Break it off. As hard as it may seem to end this relationship your life will certainly improve afterwards. The abuse possible cheating and the fact you dont want to even kiss him anymore should tell you this is not a good guy to be with. He sounds immature and needs a couple years to grow up before hes ready for a serious relationship.
2007-08-28 08:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up a little bit and run from this relationship. You need to respect yourself more and figure out that you really don't love him but you like the choas that goes along with this vilitile relationship. Someone is going to get hurt, and very bad if this continues. I've seen this a least 2 dozen times and it doesn't turn out too good for either person.
2007-08-28 09:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a really sour and dangerous relationship. Get out before you end up pregnant for sure. You don't need any ties to a man like this.
2007-08-28 09:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like being treated like dog sh*t, then by all means stay with this creep and be his personal punching bag. Gather up your self esteem and get away from this momma's boy! Trust me, you'll be much happier!
2007-08-28 09:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Linda S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a break. Leave while you can before you wind up getting pregnant and having to stay. Sounds like you need to let me see how much you mean to him. GET OUT FAST!!!!!!
2007-08-28 08:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋