he is in Portugal and before he left, he promised to spend the rest of his life with me.
2007-08-28 01:39:46 · 6 answers · asked by Mercy J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depend how dedicated you both are to making the relationship work out.
I met my future husband on a plane while coming back from Spain. The plane flew via Frankfurt, and my he is German.
When we started talking on the phone, he called almost every single day, and after about 4 months, he told me he loved me. I didn´t think he was serious, but his dedication to making our relationship last proved to me he was.
I didn´t date anyone else during our long distance relationship because I was so happy to spend hours talking to him on the phone, but if your fella doesn´t do this, I would tell you to date others-even if it´s hard.
Best wishes to you. We dated almost 2 years before marrying this past May,and now I´m in Germany with him.
2007-08-28 01:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Learning is fun! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This truly depends upon the quality of time spent before he left (and not just a vacation or something of the sort). Were there substantial talks of marriage or children or anything concrete? If so, I would have to think long and hard about this. Afterall, if this were something truly concrete, there would be talks of you joining him, right? If the relationship is not at that stage yet, then I certainly would not wait the rest of my life for someone who may not have been serious! Especially when there are plenty of good men at home who are willing to do the same and perhaps more in the commitment department!
2007-08-28 01:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you together? My boyfriend is in Africa and we plan to get married when he gets back. But we talk every single day, sometimes a few times a day. We are a couple dealing with a long distance relationship for right now. If you're not still together then it doesn't make sense to "wait" for what might be a possibility. You need to live your life right now.
2007-08-28 03:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by shellylori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously- is he in the military? If so, he's going to need all of your love and support to get through his time over there. Write him, email him, call him. Let him know you love him and aren't going anywhere. If the military isn't the case, if you love him, wait for him (as far as romance goes) but don't put your life on hold. Get a hobby, join some type of group.
2016-05-19 23:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let your life revolve around a man. If you are avalable when he comes back then great. If not then its his problem for going away.
2007-08-28 01:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you need to do best to you.
2007-08-28 01:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋