Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

I recently got remarried for the second time. Thinking that i found someone who finally who could relate to me. Because rust has always been an issue in my relationships, it took me a while to make the decision to get remarried. I am a good, faithful woman to him in EVERY way not only sexual. Lately I have been seeing him post things to different females on myspace that I feel is innappropriate. We both have pages but I tell all my guy friends upfront to respect my husband. Now i feel like if he will do it online he will do it in person if he had the chance. I feel like i should have stayed single. Am i over reacting?

2007-08-28 16:24:10 · 37 answers · asked by Monique 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 16:23:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has been calling phone sex lines..... why do men do these things? is there any nice guys out there?

2007-08-28 16:23:24 · 12 answers · asked by sweet pea 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told him if he ever needed anything id help him out. But he said thanks but he needs some time off from our relationship.Correct me if i'm wrong but when a guy is going thru sad times, wouldnt he want his partner to help him out and not stay away? I feel he is using this to break up with me. What should i do?

2007-08-28 16:22:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 3 brothers and an uncle, I don't know who to ask

2007-08-28 16:22:08 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im asingle mother of 6 children with one on the way,i would like to know from the men especially,can i truely find a man that might be interested in me and not think of my kids as baggage and not think of me as a woman in need? i carry my own weight.i love to work and have my own money,but theres no need to lie ,i wouldnt mind some help,which is something i cant seem to find love,joy,security and happiness,which ive been told that makes me an hard *** because im use to being the boss and for a man to step in and attempt to do it is hard for me,but i guess if the right one come along ,i can let go of the power and just be a woman in love who is actually happy for once in her life.

2007-08-28 16:21:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-28 16:18:07 · 1 answers · asked by FRENQUIAZIOD F 1 in Singles & Dating

tired to join an organization not too long ago, an organization I had longed to be a part of,and got accepted, but didn't go on to fully become a member :( I know bummer.Well anyways, so a few months go by and I meet this guy, I mean he's handome, smart, a prominent leader, but he was three years younger than I plus he happened to be the brother and best friend of one of the members of the the organiztion I almost joined. We started talking, and there was some chemistry, but not enough to feel like I wanted to be in a relationship with him,(if you catch my drift)so he starts calling me late hours of the night, he invited me over, we got drunk, and had sex, I felt some guilt but we talked it over and he assured me that there was nothing to feel guilty about, he wasn't involved with anyone in the organization and everything between us would be only between us, so a few months go by, and we really didn't talk that much but we hooked up again, and I called him, he called me afterwards

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3 minutes ago
(sorry for the long details) but yeah we were talking and I told him that I didn't want anyone to know about our sexual realtionship, I told him this because I didn't want people to think that I was a **** and put me in that category, and plus I told him that I might want to one day try to rejoin again, and he was like well, we do have a relationship, and in the midst of everything he was accusing me of playing on his phone, and all this stuff, but yet we got intimate, and we talked that night and he told me he thought I try to hard, and he started playing footsies, but then a few weeks goes by and I call to see if I left something at his house and he gets upset and tells me to never call him again and he'll tell everyone about our relationship, so now when I run into him, he doesn't speak, and the members sort of shun me as well,my question did I do anything wrong in your opinion and should I rejoin even though I might run into the same people, and why do you think he acted the way?

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58 minutes ago
What was really crazy...is the fact that after he threatened me and told me not too call him anymore, his best friend calls me out the clear blue asking me to come to one of his events..and I'm thinking oh yeah" somthing is up..

2007-08-28 16:17:24 · 3 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1 in Singles & Dating

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5ykhjef

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4v7w60h

i think the engraving on the outside and inside is cute.

Would it be okay for a promise ring for him?
maybe a diff engraving but something similar

2007-08-28 16:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Singles & Dating

im so open with her about everything this is the only subject thats vague what should i do. im nervous i hate lying to her ive been lying for the past year! help

2007-08-28 16:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my buddy went to a party got really drunk passed out and he smelt baby making juice on his face can he press charges if he finds the guy because that is wrong , my buddy is an a hole he dose diss girls sleep with other guys girlfriends, but this was very mean what do u think

2007-08-28 16:05:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 16:03:23 · 4 answers · asked by LOU 1 in Family

OK, so I have been having some sort of relationship with this guy, I am married but I know this one since before that. It was a sexual relationship but lately it is more of a friendship. I have helped him alot with money, over again. He moved to another city about 2 years ago. He got me a phone on his line so we could talk with no problems. Last big financial help was 1 month ago. This week I tried to call and the phone was out of service. Looked up on the internet and he had changed the number. Text him and he said he was going to tell me but he is seeing someone and they had seen our texts. Should I just cut him off or give him another chance. He says we are still good, whatever that means. I have someone who loves me so much, so why do I feel so hurt by this guy?Its not that he is seeing someone, but that he didnt tell me about the change of number, after I helped him out so much. Should I cut off all contact or try to talk? its affecting me in a physical way. I cant eat, or sleep

2007-08-28 15:59:15 · 53 answers · asked by psa73 4 in Friends

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 mths. and I really love him, and we have talked about sex alot, and we both are only 14.....but I am still a virgin and he's not, and he has been talking about how he wants to have a baby by me, so do you think that I should wait or wat??

2007-08-28 15:58:35 · 56 answers · asked by Shan_Shan 1 in Singles & Dating

True love, like soulmates.
Who actually believes in it? Has anyone ever expierenced it?

2007-08-28 15:58:03 · 18 answers · asked by sofitelle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I understand (even though it doesn't make me happy) that guys look at hot girls all the time even if they're with their girlfriend or even if they just have a girlfriend. But what does that mean - exactly? Like, I know I would look at a hot celebrity crush if he walked by but I wouldn't think like "Damn...I'd definitely ditch my guy and date HIM!" Do you guys think like that? If a hot girl walked by would you say, "She's hotter - even hotter than my girlfriend, I think I'll dump my girlfriend because there are CLEARLY hotter girls out there!"?

Another question, I've heard a lot of guys say they don't do serious relationships and some think marriage is stupid. Is it possible that there are actually guys out there that won't give in to a serious relationship ever and keep moving from one girl to another? Can guys really, really like one girl only (non-married/engaged obviously) and only want to be with her - ONLY?

2007-08-28 15:51:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tight hugs....
long hugs....
pat on the back hugs....
short hugs....
held around the waist hugs...
pick up hugs....

2007-08-28 15:48:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The first viewing when my father passed away, my mom, family and friends attended. On the second day, my fathers current wife would not allow my mom, family and friends to attend his Rosary and funeral. She made my grandma and my fathers brothers and sisters stand in the 100 degree heat. She stated that she did not want my mom, family and friends to attend. I just want to get someone else's opinion on this situation. Some of my family and friends came as far as 300 miles to show there respect.

2007-08-28 15:45:47 · 14 answers · asked by BG 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if someone owned 17 rental properties plus her own home and had credit card debt upwards of $60,000, how would they qualify for medicaid coverage and food stamps? There is a 2 year old in the house that lives with her, her tax returns show a loss every year but that is mostly smoke and mirriors, can anyone give me any information as to how this person could get medicaid benefits?

2007-08-28 15:45:29 · 3 answers · asked by bri 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs. We broke up twice but got back together in a week. Well, we broke up after prom b/c he just left me at the shore and hung out with a bunch of ppl but me. Apologized so much but we decided to end things. Besides, him staring and watching his ex bothered me too. He was in lust with her. Anyway we got back together during the end of summer but I found out that two weeks before we got back together he was hanging out with her and they shared a KISS. Not only that but I find out he kept in touch and a week after we got back together they hung out again and this time they shared passionate kisses and made out. But he swears he loves me not her. Idk what to do? She didnt know that we were back together when this happened....he had told her we were broken up. He says he finds her attractive and all but he loves me and only me. What do you think?

2007-08-28 15:43:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i only find myself attracted to people who are the same race as me, and im find with that, but does that mean i'm racist?

2007-08-28 15:43:25 · 16 answers · asked by alexandra<3 1 in Singles & Dating

tired to join an organization not too long ago, an organization I had longed to be a part of,and got accepted, but didn't go on to fully become a member :( I know bummer.Well anyways, so a few months go by and I meet this guy, I mean he's handome, smart, a prominent leader, but he was three years younger than I plus he happened to be the brother and best friend of one of the members of the the organiztion I almost joined. We started talking, and there was some chemistry, but not enough to feel like I wanted to be in a relationship with him,(if you catch my drift)so he starts calling me late hours of the night, he invited me over, we got drunk, and had sex, I felt some guilt but we talked it over and he assured me that there was nothing to feel guilty about, he wasn't involved with anyone in the organization and everything between us would be only between us, so a few months go by, and we really didn't talk that much but we hooked up again, and I called him, he called me afterwards

Additional Details

3 minutes ago
(sorry for the long details) but yeah we were talking and I told him that I didn't want anyone to know about our sexual realtionship, I told him this because I didn't want people to think that I was a **** and put me in that category, and plus I told him that I might want to one day try to rejoin again, and he was like well, we do have a relationship, and in the midst of everything he was accusing me of playing on his phone, and all this stuff, but yet we got intimate, and we talked that night and he told me he thought I try to hard, and he started playing footsies, but then a few weeks goes by and I call to see if I left something at his house and he gets upset and tells me to never call him again and he'll tell everyone about our relationship, so now when I run into him, he doesn't speak, and the members sort of shun me as well,my question did I do anything wrong in your opinion and should I rejoin even though I might run into the same people, and why do you think he acted the way?

Additional Details

58 minutes ago
What was really crazy...is the fact that after he threatened me and told me not too call him anymore, his best friend calls me out the clear blue asking me to come to one of his events..and I'm thinking oh yeah" somthing is up..

2007-08-28 15:42:58 · 10 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-28 15:41:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two little girls is that something that makes guys run the other way?

2007-08-28 15:38:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked my ex boyfriend to be my friend today and he said okay. I thought it was a good idea since both of us have the same best friend, and he told us how akward it was to have me on one side and my ex on the other and having two conversations. It wasn't a really bad breakup, were both in high school, and neither of us have other relationships so no risk of jealousy. We were each others first loves and it was a very short but sweet 4 month relationship. Given this it seems like a waste to lose a perfectly good friend. So is this a good or bad thing. Seems some people might think against it...

2007-08-28 15:37:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why

2007-08-28 15:29:17 · 12 answers · asked by L'expressif 1 in Singles & Dating

I think we are begining to like each other a lot. Younger by eight years - is that too young?

2007-08-28 15:28:28 · 27 answers · asked by sweethoney 2 in Singles & Dating

If a guy has a certain preference as far as race, but ends up dating one who isn't his preference... as far as race, should his girlfriend feel a little insecure?

2007-08-28 15:27:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need cologne and I don't know what to get, I've gotten pretty good with Fierce and Very Sexy...what else do you guys love to smell on a guy?

2007-08-28 15:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by -Detroit- 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 22 years old and my parents got divorced when i was just 10 years old, i am not over it after 2 years. my dad cheated on my mother, and left her because she found out she had lupus(auto immune disease), so me and my father aren't close at all im lucky if we talk once a month, i dont know who he is and he really has no idea who his daughter is, but i kind of hate him and want to tell him off after all these years....?

2007-08-28 15:22:23 · 17 answers · asked by blazinhotchick84 1 in Marriage & Divorce