im so open with her about everything this is the only subject thats vague what should i do. im nervous i hate lying to her ive been lying for the past year! help
2007-08-28 16:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, your mom is going to love you no matter what. She may not like the fact you have been having sex, and she may be disappointed, but she will probably be more upset that you felt you could not go to her with this.
Just sit her down and tell her you two need to talk. I'm sure there will be some hurt feelings, maybe even some yelling and crying, but in the end, Mom will still love you, and I bet she'll still have your back. Give Mom some credit. She was once your age ya know.
2007-08-28 16:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are old enough to be having sex you really don't have to share that with her. I mean once you open that door she could probably open the door about having sex with your dad and what he likes and dislikes. I swear you would be sick for ages. Now if you are under age and you are doing it, then I say if you are mature enough to be doing it, then you should be mature enough to know to be careful, have protection and not just be out there getting a reputation she has to hear about. But still you should keep it to yourself. Not everything is meant to be shared with parents. I so would never want my mom to give me sex advice. I would rather die first than have her tell me things like that. So yea if you are adult enough to be having sex then keep it as your business. No need of bringing it up and out into the open.
2007-08-28 23:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are really open with your mom, then i would say to just bring it up lightly... Like say, Mom, I don't want you to be upset, and i think you have a right to know...And just say what you feel and what comes to your head. If you and your mom are really close then i would think she would be reasonable and listen to you.
2007-08-28 23:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell her the truth. She will likely be mad at you. But wouldn't you want her mad at you for a little while than to know you're still keeping a secret from her?
2007-08-28 23:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her casually, "I'm staying over at my boyfriend's house tonight." I think she'll get the hint.
2007-08-29 00:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you are Sexually Active, and that your not a virgin.
2007-08-28 23:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by a_baybay3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prob show her your blown out puzzy ! hahhahhahahaha
2007-08-28 23:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋