my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs. We broke up twice but got back together in a week. Well, we broke up after prom b/c he just left me at the shore and hung out with a bunch of ppl but me. Apologized so much but we decided to end things. Besides, him staring and watching his ex bothered me too. He was in lust with her. Anyway we got back together during the end of summer but I found out that two weeks before we got back together he was hanging out with her and they shared a KISS. Not only that but I find out he kept in touch and a week after we got back together they hung out again and this time they shared passionate kisses and made out. But he swears he loves me not her. Idk what to do? She didnt know that we were back together when this happened....he had told her we were broken up. He says he finds her attractive and all but he loves me and only me. What do you think?
2007-08-28 15:43:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The answer is so obvious. Get rid of him fast, he wants his cake and eat it too. Bastard
2007-08-28 15:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by witch2order 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Drop his behind like the bad habit he is. Clearly he thinks he can get away with being with you and making out and doing other stuff with his ex and stuff. Show that you have more smarts than to sit around and let yourself be used by him. Break up with him this time and mean it. Because this is well past cheating, he plainly does not give a damn about you. Just doing what he feels is right. But its not right for you because he is trying to restart a relationship with someone else. I can only hope the other chick isn't laughing too hard at you over this, so end things now and save some dignity.
2007-08-28 15:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me & my bf had been together for 3 yrs & he kissed another girl. so i guess we are kinda in the same boat. sadly, yes, that is cheating. a kiss means something. look alot of ppl here are going to tell you to move on, but only you can decide what to do. dont just listen to what other ppl say, including your friends. you really gotta take some time to heal & cool off. then u can decide what to do. listen to your gut, its usually right. if ur gut says he'll do it again, he probably will, if it says he wont, maybe he wont & you can be together, but if you're still not sure give it time & just be friends. if he means what he says he'll wait for you. time heals all wounds. just remember you come first, make yourself happy, and love yourself first. remember if things don't work out, you'll survive, & im 100% sure u'll find some1 better. good luck girl. if you ever want to talk message me...blaineysgirl4evr.
2007-09-04 21:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk dump him. She isn't to blame if she didn't know you were back together but he definately is. By the way if he really loved you it would have never happened. Now he's a liar too. Cheaters and liars do not make for great boyfriends. Sorry but you have to cut him loose. I see things getting worse for you in the future.
2007-08-28 15:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he has his cake and is eating it too.
Are you thinking you might marry this guy one day? if not then don't waste your time, energy and emotions on him!
If you think you might....WAKE UP!!! HE HAS cheated on you by making out with her after a week of you gettin back together. He will continue when you let him by staying with him. Dump him,
Don't you think you deserve better than a relationship full of this emotional turmoil.
Love should make you both sure of whom you want to be with, and real love will have his eyes on ONLY YOU!!!
Best wishes and sorry that it hurts.
2007-09-05 02:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by shello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no. Do NOT be with him anymore or ever again. He is a player. How can he passionately make out with his ex and then claim he loves you? Please take my advice. If you stay with him you will only end up getting hurt and regretting it. Like the first answerer said, he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He is being unfair.
2007-08-28 16:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by †StrongAsDeath† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! You deserve more respect than this guy has been giving you. Understandable that you love him, probably your first major relationship, but it sounds like he's getting antsy and the ex-girlfriend may not be the only lips he's kissing besides yours.
2007-08-28 15:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by 2busymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say once a cheater always a cheater, you have two years with this guy, but yet you are always breaking up,see all those red flags. Throw him to the curb,get yourself someone who will love you always, and not play games with your heart. Besides you are better then that.
2007-09-04 22:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is cheating. Why would you be with a guy who is still involved with his ex-girlfriend? It's so wrong of him to tell you that he still finds her attractive, etc. Get rid of him! It may hurt for a while but time will heal your pain and you will move on eventually.
2007-08-28 15:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't be able to accept this from a b/f who claims he loves only me ... so up to you to decide if you want to continue with this 2 timing *&%hole - u must then expect he'll do the same with many more in future
2007-08-28 15:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WITHOUT A DOUBT HE IS CHEATING YOU. How can he say he loves you, but makes out with another person?
What one say in words must be proven by action. If your boyfriend says he loves you what has he done to prove that he truly loves you? Did making out with his ex proves that he loves you? OBVIOUSLY NOT.
If you allow him to continuosly fool you by sweet talking you into believing that he loves you, then it is your look out. I do not think he is the guy for you. That is my plain and simple answer to your question.
2007-08-28 22:27:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋