my husband has been calling phone sex lines..... why do men do these things? is there any nice guys out there?
2007-08-28 16:23:24 · 12 answers · asked by sweet pea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am a freak with him..... i actually beg him 4 sex and do everything.. should i add that he leaves me all the time and goes and does drugs.... we have a 9 month old
2007-08-28 16:33:45 · update #1
It is not about you.... if he has a drug addiction he is already lost, and sex lines and chat lines are just the step (sex addicts) they take before they actually meet up the people...
You deserve better, your child deserves better
What if he brought a disease into your home?
2007-08-28 17:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Navyexwife 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to leave. I am not saying divorce him for that is a choice you would have to make. But your husband is an sex and drug addict and needs help. And right now the only person that can help him is him. For people can only change when they are ready. He has to take the first step. And based on what you have said he doesn't appear to be changing at this time. You have a child to think about.
2007-08-28 16:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you talk to him about what talks to these women about? Does he like the dirty talk from those women? Does he talk about a sex act that he doesn't want to talk to you about?
It could be that there is something that he finds a turn-on but doesn't feel comfortable talking to you about. In an nice non-confrontational way ask him about it, get him to open up and you might find that he is willing to talk about it and tell you what the basis of the situation is. It maybe something that you both have been lacking from your own sex life, and could be a source of spicing things up a bit.
Confront and accuse and he will clam up and argue right back.
If he's doing it and just being a pervert then kick him to the kerb girlfriend!!!!!!
2007-08-28 16:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Discostu 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Time to leave, the faster the better for both you and the baby. I don't she a future in this marriage. You will find nice guys if you are in the right place.
2007-08-28 16:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a nice guy
But I'm also engaged.
My Dad has pulled some pretty rottten sh!t in regard to my Mom, so my heart goes out to you...
Some guys are just pigs, I guess.
2007-08-28 16:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
The best advice i can give you is dont think it is about you. Who knows why guys do those ridiculous things.
2007-08-28 17:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Erin S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not gonna lie on this one u need to divorce him drugs and kids dont mix and btw men do these things cuz they are men
2007-08-28 16:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by flounderdagreat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes and you are not married to one dump his a s s but tell him you dont like phone sex so your gonna go find something real that dont want to jack off to cellular one .......
2007-08-28 16:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YUP we're here, most of us r just pervs,need a little excitement!! Make your own calls, and listen to what he wants from you!!
2007-08-28 16:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your husband is either lonely or bored... ASK him what he wants from you if you are able to provide it. It may just be that he likes the chase. (I am guilty of that)
2007-08-28 16:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋