Who actually believes in love?

Question

True love, like soulmates.
Who actually believes in it? Has anyone ever expierenced it?

Personaly, I don't myself, but then again I wouldn't know.
I've never had a serious relationship.
But it seems that everyone I know that claims to be in love either gets hurt and the relationship ends, or the whole relationship is about lust and sex.

I guess thats why I'm asking.
I'm kinda hoping to be proved wrong.

Answer 1

I believe it exists. A state of being where two people have found a haven in the other's heart. I have seen it. It's not as glamorous as Hollywood would have you believe, less showy, but just as beautiful. I don't think I have experienced it myself, but I would like to, someday.

Answer 2

I totally believe in true love.
Not so sure about soul mates though.

I'm completely in love with my boyfriend. We've known eachother for about 3 years, and have been going out for almost 2 of them all together..

Sure, there's arguments, and disagreements, and fights, and sometimes even break-ups, but somehow, we always end up back together.

Love is something you just know it when you feel it.
It might not come around for 2 months or 2 years, but when it comes around, take my word for it, you'll be sure that you have it. Love is 100% real, sometimes it hurts and ends badly, but it doesn't make it true that it doesn't exist.
Some people have it and lose it, and then theres people like my grandparents who've been together and in love for 55 years.
Its real, hope ive helped!!

Answer 3

I definitely believe in true love. I think lust and impulse is a part of true love; if you're not attracted to someone, the lust disappears and the true love can't happen. But I think for everyone there's someone else out there who will find their look perfect, find their personality perfect, and it will be meant to be. Although from my point of view a lot of people seem to THINK they've found love when it's really lust, and they make sacrifices and compromises they maybe shouldn't make, and that ruins a relationship when you're changing your life for someone who you may not be in love with.

In my mind, we're each looking for something in someone, something unique. Everyone wants the typical attractive, funny, intelligent person. But there's something more in my mind that we each search for. I, for example, search for someone different than everyone else. If every girl my age is just a typical college student and wants to go out and party every weekend, they're too normal for me. There has to be someone out there who likes something different...not that there's anything wrong with the former, but someone different is that much more appealing.

Answer 4

I hate to burst the bubble, and be depressing, but I don't believe in true love in a romantic sense. I believe in lust & infatuation. I think you can trick yourself into this thing called love because it feels so good, safe and secure. But really, it's just a convenient feeling of emotions. Once that convenience is gone, both the lust & infatuation will fade. I believe in love in the sense that it is something that develops over time, and grows, but you have to work it at it, and nourish it for it to develop.

Answer 5

i lived with this guy for three and a half years. i switched provinces and relocated my job for him... after three years of being faithful and loving him, not wanting anything to change because i loved him.... i met my soul mate. we have been together for a year now... living together for 9 months of it. i left my other man for this guy and i know for a fact it is the right choice.. sometimes you have to be in the position to make the decision that yes there is true love. maybe some people just never come across it. but i am a true believer

PS don't get me wrong i feel terrible for what i did to the other guy but we talk still and he forgives me but i still feel bad... but sometimes you cant help how you feel

Answer 6

I most definitely believe in TRUE LOVE. My wife and I have been happily married for over 30 years. It takes give and take on both sides to make it happen, but we are living proof. Love does conquer all.

Answer 7

I think I have with my husband. We've been together 4 years, married for 2 of those, and each day I wake up next to him and thank God we found eachother.

I know love is mostly a clever evolutionary chemical ploy our brains use to get us to reproduce...but I couldn't imagine being chemically loopy for anyone else!

Answer 8

i have a soul mate hes real. and hes the love of my life. hes 20 years older then me and its sad. i am going to see him get older and dye before my eyes and it hurts even now. hes now 78 and i am 58 that is sad. hes slowed down abit and its quite hard to see this i can't do nothing for him give him his youth and we were so tight and we still are. i pray for him each nite not to see the big difference but i felt he already has. we've been married 25 years this year its second marriage for both uf us he helped me raise my 4 sons and hes been a saint for it all this is what a soulm ate does. i have one so now you know.

Answer 9

I have been in love. To call it true love would be unreal. True love is everlasting. I do believe that soul can connect, but unless you have a better relationship with yourself and your family true love is a fantasy. Only when you love yourself and others can you experience true love.

Answer 10

I'm skeptical about soulmates...but I believe in true love big time. My boyfriend is in the sweetest, kindest, coolest, most amazing soul I have ever met.

It's out there gurl...if you ain't found it yet, just keep a-lookin, and don't you dare settle! :)