2007-08-28 15:41:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man it seems like you are a very unconfident kinda person buh you gotta build your confidents and go for what ever you wanna go for
dont just think you dont gotta chance and you never tried you just gotta try to see where you will get and if you get a negitive respond then it was a good try and you can try agin with a next girl
keep you head up and keep trying
2007-08-28 15:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st...build your confidence. 2nd...this is the hardest part...know your capabilities. Don't go after the woman you think that you have no chance to get. Chances are, if that's how you feel, she's gonna know it and get turned off right off the bat. Confidence is sexy to women. Get to know her first. If you're concerned about falling too quickly, get a grip. Take it easy. Don't fall. If you're in a position where you are falling for a person who you have no chance to get, chances are they're either leading you on or you're living in your own dream world. Women see it as "too needy". They will run.
Good hunting,
Clark (with a little help from Lois)
2007-08-28 15:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by southrngentami4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my experience, I liked a guy that I had thought I had absoultely no chance at all, I loved him for like a year, and I pursued him, and now we are going on 8 monthes. I would say to follow your heart, but still listen to your head. You may never know, she may like you and you may have a chance, people always say that they have no chance, but you have just as much of a chance as any other guy. You may actually be surprised when you take a chance and just go for it...
2007-08-28 15:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion when you start thinking you have no chance in love, it goes on to business, vacation, swimming, etc. You end up in a downward spiral that only a miracle will help to get you out of. Always think positive, but plan for failure. We all fail, that doesn't mean we have to quit before we start. It is like the old story of the next door neighbor who needed to borrow a lawn mower, he started thinking I borrowed his weed wacker, I borrowed his sprinkler, I borrowed his wheelbarrow and I never gave anything back. By this time he was at his neighbor's house and had already knocked on the door. When the door opened he said 'Keep your da*ned lawnmower anyway" and walked away. Don't start thinking you will fail before you fail.
2007-08-28 15:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude joo_vij or w/e...whats your problem? dont take his advice, trust me it will come back and bite you in the ass. not that you would anyway. dude, i used to be the same way you are right now. think higher of yourself. make some friends with girls, get to know them. they will tell you how to act around girls, what girls like and all that other good stuff. just give it time. there will be a girl that likes you for you one day. just be patient
2007-08-28 15:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by djmehs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you have a zero chance. If she is not family, you have a chance.
2007-08-28 15:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find you a different girl as quickly as possible that you feel like you'll have
a chance at.
2007-08-28 15:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Brian Sanders 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant ..life is all about chances,...one of these days you are gonna think here we go again no chance and she is gonna be the one..your heart wants what your heart wants...
2007-08-28 15:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by bailie28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you should ask my homeboy. he's been after me for about 6 years now.
2007-08-28 15:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nunya Biznuzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what i did. start making fun of her with ur friends and talk behind her back alot, then she will look like a loser, which she really is probably, to you.
2007-08-28 15:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by joo_vij_2_million 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋