English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

tired to join an organization not too long ago, an organization I had longed to be a part of,and got accepted, but didn't go on to fully become a member :( I know bummer.Well anyways, so a few months go by and I meet this guy, I mean he's handome, smart, a prominent leader, but he was three years younger than I plus he happened to be the brother and best friend of one of the members of the the organiztion I almost joined. We started talking, and there was some chemistry, but not enough to feel like I wanted to be in a relationship with him,(if you catch my drift)so he starts calling me late hours of the night, he invited me over, we got drunk, and had sex, I felt some guilt but we talked it over and he assured me that there was nothing to feel guilty about, he wasn't involved with anyone in the organization and everything between us would be only between us, so a few months go by, and we really didn't talk that much but we hooked up again, and I called him, he called me afterwards

Additional Details

3 minutes ago
(sorry for the long details) but yeah we were talking and I told him that I didn't want anyone to know about our sexual realtionship, I told him this because I didn't want people to think that I was a **** and put me in that category, and plus I told him that I might want to one day try to rejoin again, and he was like well, we do have a relationship, and in the midst of everything he was accusing me of playing on his phone, and all this stuff, but yet we got intimate, and we talked that night and he told me he thought I try to hard, and he started playing footsies, but then a few weeks goes by and I call to see if I left something at his house and he gets upset and tells me to never call him again and he'll tell everyone about our relationship, so now when I run into him, he doesn't speak, and the members sort of shun me as well,my question did I do anything wrong in your opinion and should I rejoin even though I might run into the same people, and why do you think he acted the way?

Additional Details

58 minutes ago
What was really crazy...is the fact that after he threatened me and told me not too call him anymore, his best friend calls me out the clear blue asking me to come to one of his events..and I'm thinking oh yeah" somthing is up..

2007-08-28 15:42:58 · 10 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

F.Y.I. His best friend is a girl not a man.

2007-08-28 16:19:27 · update #1

10 answers

Not your fault. Shitt happens and if you didn't get in the orginization of some sort, find something else maybe. Don't let something like that hold you down, and never let a man hold you down.

2007-08-28 15:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Don't trust anyone with your reputation. You are responsible to keep that intact. You allowed yourself to be a booty call and now the word got around; that's why you got a call for a date from his friend. Take back the power and don't associate with anyone who would hurt you, like trying to join the club again, that would be the worst thing in the world. Learn your lesson and move forward.

2007-08-28 15:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 1 0

You got hooked up with a rat the lowest kind you know, kiss and tell. You are being a little mysterious about this organization you almost joined.Screw him and anybody else that looks at you funny or says something to you,they don't pay your rent so why should you care what they or anyone else says about you.

2007-08-28 16:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0 0

Welcome to the world of politics - where males and females tend to get screwed over political issues.

Sometimes unfortunately the women get screwed more than the men do.

This is what it sounds like happened to you.

It happens - you are not the FIRST one and you won't be the last - so just leave them alone and move on to something better that will treat you with respect.

2007-08-28 15:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sound's like Church of the rejected.
May-be Taster's choice, or Join a group of Angel's at a convent?

2007-08-28 15:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I agree with turtle, sim.situation with me, a good girl, one mistake, talk talk tak blah blah blah, i stopped speaking to all of whom i thought were my friends, the better person, one less person to gossip about, got over it, still hurts, but you move forward

2007-08-28 16:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You hurt his tender little boy feelings. Get over it.

2007-08-28 15:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You are easy. His best friend wants sloppy seconds.

2007-08-28 15:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 1 0

what was the name of the cult you want to join?

2007-08-28 15:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 0 0

Yeah something's fishy...... Better not go. n

2007-08-28 15:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 1 0

fedest.com, questions and answers