I understand (even though it doesn't make me happy) that guys look at hot girls all the time even if they're with their girlfriend or even if they just have a girlfriend. But what does that mean - exactly? Like, I know I would look at a hot celebrity crush if he walked by but I wouldn't think like "Damn...I'd definitely ditch my guy and date HIM!" Do you guys think like that? If a hot girl walked by would you say, "She's hotter - even hotter than my girlfriend, I think I'll dump my girlfriend because there are CLEARLY hotter girls out there!"?
Another question, I've heard a lot of guys say they don't do serious relationships and some think marriage is stupid. Is it possible that there are actually guys out there that won't give in to a serious relationship ever and keep moving from one girl to another? Can guys really, really like one girl only (non-married/engaged obviously) and only want to be with her - ONLY?
2007-08-28 15:51:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most men I know, when they look at other women, that's it. They are just looking. Most men that I know don't compare. I am dating this guy who's also dating two other women. We are all individuals in his eyes. He doesn't compare us in any way. He appreciates us for our differnces.
As for whether men will ever settle down or remain eternal bachelors, it all depends on the person. There are some guys who never wanted to get married who eventually settle down. And there's the opposite, the ones who want to eventually get married, but remain eternal bachelors. And there's every shade in between. But yes, it is very possible that a guy would want to be with on woman and one woman only.
2007-08-28 16:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for you. No, it's not impossible for a guy to settle down or to refrain from looking at other women. I, for one, do not and will not look at any girls lustfully. I have many of them as friends, and I see them as I do normal people. Looking lustfully at women will damage and impede friendhips with all. Also, if a person is in a relationship, it is up to both involved to stay true to each other. (No, I do not believe in pre-marital sex.)
As for those guys you were talking about that never want to have casual relationships, I dissaprove of that all together. A person should only ask for that type of a relationship if they are seriously entering the relationship with the intention to marry if both agree.
2007-08-29 00:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Yallo248 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can guys really, really like one girl only (non-married/engaged obviously) and only want to be with her - ONLY?
::: it's called love.
2007-08-28 22:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sa♪ah ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been living under a rock or do you just block out the things you don't wanna hear.
2007-08-28 23:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by jamesnt2001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2007-08-28 22:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋