2007-08-28 14:34:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your ill,your broke...and you do not know how to support yourself because you can barely get out of bed,and ur spouse is not respecting you.You have two choices live in a moldy house of a smoker and your allergic to smoke.Or stay with your abusive spouse in a smoke free environment???
2007-08-28 14:36:07 · update #1
Yes, I would. Why take this kind of treatment when your alreadfy ill. Sorry but I would live under a bridge before anyone ever abused me again.
2007-08-28 14:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the abusive spouse. At least that is a step in the right direction. You can't live with abuse. You'll have to take your chances elsewhere. I'm so sorry you are ill. Please take the time to recover even in a house where there is smoke. Escaping the stress you live in now should be your goal.
2007-09-05 02:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ill, broke and living with a spouse who doesn't treat you well? If you get rid of him then you only have to deal with ill and broke.
2007-08-28 22:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody deserves that kind of treatment whether they are ill or perfectly healthy. I would never stay with my spouse, regardless of the circumstances, if he did not respect me and treat me with dignity.
2007-08-28 21:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a women's shelter and change your life! You sound like a desperate person and it is time to find a way to live without a man. Check with Social Services and ask them to refer you to a women's shelter. It isn't only for abused women. They can be for women in situations like yours who need a boost. Don't settle for anything less than you deserve!
2007-09-05 01:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Debi N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately!!! Each day you stay weakens you mentally and physically.There are other options available & tons of resources to help people in your situation help themselves. I'm not sure exactly what your needs are beyond safe housing but your family Dr. can help or at least refer you to others that can.
2007-08-28 21:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a support group for women and stay with a friend or realtive, why? put yourself through that!
2007-09-05 11:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by criminal_justice2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to see an attorney. Your spouse might have to provide you with alimony until you get better. Good luck.
2007-08-28 21:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by teaparty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or contact an organization that works with cases of domestic abuse and get some help...
2007-08-28 21:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ALREADY ADMIT THAT THIS IS AN ABUSIVE REALTIONSHIP. PERHAPS THIS IS WHAT IS MAKING YOU SICK. YOU NEED TO CONTACT A COUNSELOR TO SEE WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT GETTING OUT OF THE HOUSE AND ENVIRONMENT THAT IS OBVIOUSLY MAKING YOU SICKER. GET AWAY FROM THIS JERK.
2007-09-02 07:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋