How Can I Please A Girl In Bed?

Question

I've been holding off sex for a while because I wanted to know how to please the girl rather than please myself- but I still don't get it. LADIES! Please, tell me from personal experience what worked for you and what didn't. What are some good positions and good foreplay techniques? I really want to give this girl the night of her life- really blow her mind so that she'll always remember me as "the guy noones ever come close to", so I really need some tips and pointers. Please! All comments appreciated! Except the sarcastic ones.

Answer 1

lots of foreplay!!!!!
lick and nibble her nipples!
move your fingers softly all over her body(it works)
kiss her all over especially the neck and stomach.
play with her clit gently though.
oral sex
run your hands up and down her thighs.


missionary
her on top
piledriver

Answer 2

Well first and fore most, you have to make sure that you don't finish first. Foreplay and a lot of it will arouse her so that when you get down to penetration, she's got a jump on you and is ready and very receptive. As for the particulars, I couldn't tell you that, since every sexual experience is different depending on the individuals involved, and even then, it's unique and different each and every time. No two people can duplicate an act of sexual satisfaction each time they get together. So for the best experience you can have with her, simply ask her what she likes. She may be able to tell you and if she can't try kissing her and gently licking or sucking her on various places and ask her if she likes it. Ask her if she wants more of it, ask her how she wants it. You have a great start of it simply based on the mere fact that you want to please her. A lot of guys don't even start out with that. Good luck.

Answer 3

Every girl is different so the most important thing is to judge by the way she reacts to different things/positions. The best advice I can give you is 1) watch her and when you can tell she likes something, keep doing it. 2) use a lot of clitoral stimulation. Rub it with your fingers before intercourse, go down on her, and when the sexual position allows, rub her clitoris while you are doing the deed. She will, indeed enjoy this. Just make sure you are not too rough, and don't be afraid to ask her what she likes. When she tells you, listen to her. That should make it pretty easy.

Answer 4

ok..you have to understand that this moment you are looking for...starts LONG before the bed...it kinda depends on whether you are single or married...but i will say this...IF you are single and you eat in...do her dishes, not her laundry THAT is creepy on the single side..if married..go right ahead with that! now on either side...have candles (don't set the place on fire-that is a turn off), depending on the girl, a nice completely asexual foot massage is awesome to set the mood...but again...careful...because she is no dummy..she'll read that like a book if she isn't ready for that...alcohol...is gonna depend on her as well. Don't push the 2nd wine on her, let her drink what she wants. Romantic comedY FILMS can be good on a 3rd or 4th date...but..make sure you have been dating a few weeks if she is a bit shy on that side. In the end, don't be pushy..she will let you know..you are setting the mood for that night...so no STUPID guy films unless you KNOW (like you know the sun's gonna come up) that she is going to like it..and that it will help the night progress.

for married guys...amazing how cleaning up the house, vacuuming and doing the dishes can be an aphrodisiac (for her)...BUT you CANNOT do it to leverage sex...you have to do it on a daily basis...otherwise the same way that she makes you earn it...you are equally manipulative..so be consistent and be genuine!

THEN in the bedroom...massage and kiss everywhere...
without touching this or that...JUST long enough to drive them NUTS...(no pun intended...wait..yeah it was hehe)

Answer 5

kiss her all over her body alot of gentle touching and massaging. tease her when u kiss n suck her breast avoid the nipple on purpose. keep fingernails short so u dont scratch them when u play w/ her g-spot which is located inside on the top of her coochie. the best way to stimulate it is to start w/ 1 finger the move to 2 kneading in a come here motion. when u go down on her tease her first kiss in out of her inner thigh, when u get to the act of giving pleasure find the clit which is on the outside at the top of the opening. it is covered by a hood , but if u have followed this it should b making a appearance. start w/ slow tongue strokes up n down as u hear her breathing change u will want to speed up the tongue strokes when her legs start to shake u have done ur job. the slow stroke technique is used during penatration also start with slow strokes and build up speed as u feel n increase in mouisture.

Answer 6

FOREPLAY start with kissing gently on the neck,soft & sensual, slowly move to the nipples "NO BITTING" little licks & little sucks, take your 3 fingers one on both sides of the lips the middle finger gently rub and stroke her clit"GENTLY"!! If your kissing, and licking was soft slow and sweet she will be wet and it will not hurt her, after you rub for a few she will be ready for you to either lick the box or ride you like a cowboy rides his bull! Just remember us women are like a deisal engine once we get warmed up we can go for-ever!!!Foreplay to me is something that has to be done or sex is not as exciting and long lasting as it should be.

Answer 7

i'm going to be honest with you

"practice makes perfect" is more than just a cliche

BUT, one thing that never fails is to ask her what she wants. while you're kissing and rubbing and licking etc, ask her what feels good.

If you're not good at fingering, tell her to put your fingers where she wants them. Keep communication up during the whole time until you've hit the spot then continue what you're doing until she comes. Don't ever switch up the motion if she likes what you're already doing, that just delays the orgasm and pisses her off.

hope that helps

and have fun with it dude, it's not a test

Answer 8

Every woman is different, so I don't know if there is one golden answer that works.

I think to please someone, you have to know them and know what they like. Communication is good. If she can't tell you what she likes, then you can't do it....you just have to guess. Guessing won't make for good success most of the time.

I would say what is your best bet of pleasing her is make sure she orgasms first. Do what she likes, but most women, I think, like oral. Don't pass up an opportunity to make her orgasm and hope it will happen with intercourse because a lot of woman don't orgasm that way.

Basically, when you do something to her, pay attention to her signal to you that she likes it....moans, sighs, the words, "yes" or "right there"...if she arches her back. Just be aware of her body language.

Good luck!

Answer 9

Foreplay.

Answer 10

I will tell you from personal experience that different things please different women at different times with different men. There is no standard. For me, what I like with one guy, I may not like with the next. My best advice for you is to have open communication with the girl you do have sex with. If you're not sure how to "read" her, just ask her what she likes. She'll tell you.