Plz , tell me
2007-08-28 19:26:20 · 22 answers · asked by Joney B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you tried counseling? See if you can fix the problem before just running away. Don't listen to the other poster, she says she would leave but she doesnt have the money? If she is only married due to financial reasons that makes her a
2007-08-28 19:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by gadfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know I can't really compare to a marriage, but I'm in a relationship right now that I am not happy in, I can tell you for sure that there are so many people in this world, I wonder why I've put so much effort into a guy who says he loves me, yet doesn't want to hang out more then once or twice a week, or doesn't even call me on his own! There are so many people in this world you should be with someone that is just in love with you as you are them! I know it's easier said then done, I've been unhappy for months and I've just decided today it's time to move on :( I think it's the best move because I am tired of being miserable! Just prepare yourself before you leave and you'll be ok :)
2007-08-29 02:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should be giving you advise on such little information but i will tell you this if that's all that is wrong in your marriage you just being unhappy then i would say to you,absolutely not.You didn't say how long you been married or if you have any kids or if you are in love with someone else and that is the real reason you want out. You really need to tell us more if you want help.I have been married for 28 years and there were many days i was unhappy but to walk away from the man i married would be so unfair to him and to me.
2007-08-29 03:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of unhappy in my marriage right now, but we are trying to work things out. My husband is a hard to deal with kind of guy and he knows it, he just can't help how he is. We have been together for three and a half years and married for seven months. We have been arguing about the same things for about two years, but we love each other so much and still try and make things better. We have two kids and we don't want to get a divorce or anything. I say if you have no love for him anymore than leave him, but if you truly love him and feel you both can work things out then stay with him. Honestly it's really up to you and how you feel. Good Luck to you!!
2007-08-29 02:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by shai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy in the marriage then why would u want to stay, chances are your both unhappy but neither will admit it. I think what needs to be done is u two should talk, your being unhappy will only in the long run make the other unhappy, plus in the end u will just resent your spouse if u stay.
2007-08-29 02:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by shari y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta find out for yourself. I don't feel like you have given me enough information to accurately help you make a decision. If you are truly unhappy and would have a more fulfilling life outside of your marriage than you should leave. But if there is a chance you can make it better and work it out, you should try to. Most likely, you won't find much better outside your marriage, unless your marriage is very abusive or something like that.
Good luck. Look inside yourself for the answer.
2007-08-29 02:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by jbahhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more info ?
How long have you been unhappy ? It this all the time or just a phase?
I think in general people think marriage will be happy all the time and let me tell you that it has its ups and downs. If there are too many downs and not enough ups then time to consider change.
2007-08-29 02:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so miserable being in this marriage, you should tell your spouse and leave. Don't just leave without any explanations.
Expect the difficult road ahead and prepare for yourself when you leave. Leave now before you're thinking of having an affair because by then, you won't feel good about yourself.
Not every relationships work out. Don't feel bad if you have to leave. Better leave now than being miserable for the rest of your life. You're doing yourself and your spouse a favor.
2007-08-29 02:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sure is a vague question. Why are you unhappy and what's been going on? Are you unhappy because you're bickering about whose turn it is to take out the garbage and mow the lawn? Are you unhappy because your spouse has slept with everybody in town, has a cocaine problem, and threatedned you with a knife? Details!
2007-08-29 02:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ambivalence 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't provide details, so I can't offer anything specific. You need to consider why you are unhappy, what could change to fix this, and what else might get broken in the process. Ultimately, you will have to ask yourself the famous question: are you better off with him or without him?
2007-08-29 02:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋