my exbf and I went out 2 yrs ago,we werent on speaking terms but i recently contact him to hang out b4 leaving for college. He agreed and we met up, hung out and kissed at the end of the night (that was our first kiss together) . A week later he left for college but kept in touch; calling me, texting me saying he misses me and wants to kiss me..etc. Well, when he came down from college he asked to see me, I agreed. But I had seen pictures of him and his "ex" girlfriend (he had told me they were broken up and werent really speaking to eachother) rather affectionate on the girl's FACEBOOK. This made me suspicious so I brought a camara with me and met up with him. We made out a lot and he was very affectionate and rather lustful with me..he said things like "things couldve been diff. btw. us" "you are soo good looking" "you are a cool chick to hang out with" and said wow a lot and kissed me alot. At the end, I took out my camara and asked him to pose with me. Well guess what? He hid his
2007-08-28 18:43:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
under his baseball cap and told me "next time we get together i promise you can take as many pics as you want of us" he ran away when I insisted. He said "i dont like taking pics" "pinky promise next time!!" I asked "why not now what is the difference" he said "i dont take pics with anybody" I asked him "r u in a relationship?" he said "NO why would I? i am in college."
he wouldnt even take a pic alone.
he asked for a hug before we parted and I was furious so i didnt give him one and i got in my car and we both drove off. Later that night, I text him "tonight was amazing, I guess we do have chemistry after all" he hasn't replied since. Its been since Sunday...
What do you think??
2007-08-28 18:44:07 · update #1
His behavior is definitely suspicious. Although it seems like there is a lot of chemistry, I think that you are 'the other woman.' It may be best that you guys aren't talking right now. You probably won't get straight answers from him because he has already lied to you. Find someone who is willing to care for you and focus his attentions on ONLY you. You should expect a guy to be kissing one girl at a time. If you go out, what is there preventing him on doing the same to you? Be careful please.
2007-08-28 18:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by pirate_princess89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what this reminds me of? A tug of war. One girl holds his left arm, while the other girl holds his right arm. It seems like your grip is slipping as she pulls tightly and he seems to be leaning towards her side. The more and more you see that you are losing him, the more and more you seem to fight for him.... and I ask you... WHY?
Does it seem worth all the energy to work for something that you know you cant have... and even if you are able to hold it in your hands... do you think it would last? or that it would be what you wanted?
The man has lied about being single to you while holding onto his girlfriend who seems to trust him and isn't aware of this. Do you really want to be the chick on the side? the woman without a face and without repsect? Sure sometimes it can be a thrill but your really a piece of azz in his eyes. Why would he lie about pictures? You weren't asking for his blood or Social Security number.
Wise up and leave him alone. If you want drama than it will be delivered on your doorstep.
2007-08-28 18:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by aleasha_Sam01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem a lil desperate clingy honestly im going to tell u straight up theres another girl LEAVE HIM ALONE and forget about him
2007-08-28 18:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
got in in the act go girl... f*** him
2007-08-28 19:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by caliyah1234567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Busted!!!!!! You go girl!!!!
2007-08-28 19:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋