I need big help.
I thought i was in love [[Haha!!]] with this guy but last night i found out he's a cheater. thing is he didn't cheat on me.
...He cheated on his girlfriend, with me.
I found out from a reliable source that he hadn't broken up with his girlfriend so i told him i knew and he didn't deny it atall. he admitted it smugly and then just ignored all my calls and texts when i was trying to verbally kill him. lol.
Anyway today I'm seeing him today but just as ""friends"".
How do i get my payback...??
Need Help This Is Soooo Important xx
Cheers x
Nikki <3
2007-08-28 23:53:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm meeting him as a group, not just me and him. im friends with everyone else there, just not him and i want revenge biiig time.
2007-08-29 00:02:45 · update #1
get to be my gf...
i wont leave u ...just saying..
make him feel he is nothing in ur life by acting that u are unaffected as he left....
make ur friend reject him....
list is endless....
i want a gf in chat.....
umm.... i was thinking............maybe...............
2007-08-29 00:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I posted my ex (with photo) on http://www.dontdatehim.com
It wasn't so much for revenge but more so for wanting to warn any poor unsuspecting souls out there who might get mixed up with him in future as to what a devious piece of work he is! The idea of the website is that if a woman is thinking of dating a guy, she can put his name in the search option, see if he's listed and read about his past actions.
Although its a predominantly American website, there are quite a few people from all around the world who post their exes on there....
2007-08-29 17:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by Blah blah blah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...All the other suggestions are very good and sensible.(Even the POISON HIM one!).
But have you got anything that belongs to him like clothing? As an idea you could bag them up and give them too him, saying that it is all washed and ironed......but when he next goes to wear his freshly cleaned clothes, there are great big wholes in the backs of them. Rips and tears, missing cuffs. Some sort of itching powder is also a good'un.
You could print off a pretend V.D. clinic appointment card and hand it over to him.
If your going for drinks slip an exlax into his beer. the possibilties are endless!!!!
2007-08-29 07:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Spammy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all revenge is never the answer for anything makes you look likea retard if you take revenge out on him just dump him tell him you need more of a man figure and not a joke.this isnt the real Jerry Springer show this is reality, how much would it be if you dumped him and he lost both of you and you gained knowledge that you gained the smartness in life to turn away? i mean thats all the "revenge" he is going get is losing both of you thats enough pain to be laughed at by all his friends.
2007-08-29 07:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with some of the other posters. I know you want to scratch his eyes out but ignore him. If any of your mutual friends ask why you're not talking to him, tell them. They might see him in a different light. And it's not only you that has been hurt over this. Think about his girlfriend. He only did this to you once but how many times has he done this to her? I think she needs to know. Tell her and watch the fireworks fly. lol
Good luck, and remember, be the better person, ignore. Having his girlfriend know will be revenge enough.
2007-08-29 07:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by mom to be 6/27/09 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know you're angry and so want to have it out with him, but do consider this: You're meeting in a group soon, and it wouldn't be very nice for the people in the group to have to put up with you and him at each other's throats all night long.
I think your best deal is to completely ignore him and get on with your own life. He's the jerk, not you. You went with him on good faith, remember. Just because he can't grow up, doesn't mean that you have to stay on his level.
You might want to mention it to his girlfriend, though. And tell her that you didn't know about her. Do it discreetly, and wait for the **** to hit the fan.
Remember, what goes around comes around.
2007-08-29 07:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Arrange to meet him and leave him standing for ages, then go in your best clothes do your hair make up to perfection and he will be putty in your hands and then just give him the cold shoulder, either that or get close to him and when he thinks he can hug you or kiss you just knee him in the knackers.
Good luck, and get him told girl x
2007-08-29 07:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose the desire for revenge, it's self destructive.
The best revenge is realising you deserve better and leaving him behind. He'll hate that.
If he'll cheat on her, he'll cheat on you. He is so not worth it.
Revenge is a double edged sword, if you take revenge you will end up disliking youself for sinking to his level.
Let it go.
2007-09-01 20:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by cara 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't show up where your suppose to meet him.
ignore him completely and more on. Living a good life is the best revenge.
2007-08-29 07:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Greeneyed 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do not turn up and go out and have a good time
2007-08-29 07:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by Janet C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to walk away and live well.
2007-08-29 07:01:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋