You find out that the man you have been 'dating' online for about 3 months was chatting with you and another 'female' at the same time. He wrote you a message completely irrelevant to the course of your conversatioin at the time and it was addressed to a female.
Although not too personal in nature but nevertheless, it's apparent that he knew her well enough to want to share something with 'her'. Would you dump his sorry a**?
He texts three times immediately afterwords first pretending to be 'surprised' by my reaction to 'our' conversation - which he repeated - but, . . .without that 'line' that was sent to me ( by mistake ) with the 'other' woman which only confirms my doubts.
Second text: " I love you and want you to be my life partner and I am happy and contented with our relationship. Do not throw away everything that's between us, for no apparent reason.
Third text:" I beg you to reconsider if you intend to leave me, because it's not fair; at least answer my call(s)"- all 3
2007-08-28 23:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by nutcracker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The is what is wrong with online relationships. You can't look into their eyes and tell whether they are lying. They can lie to you for months, even years before you know the truth. I would not even trust him again. He is probably talking to numerous other women, telling them the same thing that he is telling you.
BTW, how falls in love in 3 months, even if you are SEEING someone every day? That is a red flag for sure. Saying I love you too soon is a serious sign of something being wrong!!
2007-08-28 23:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whaaaaaa. What kind of dating are you doing "online". You don't know this person for all you know it could be a 15 year old girl. Im just saying. You got yourself all wrapped up emotionally with someone you don't even know. Have you talked with him on the phone, seen him in person, went out on and actual date? Well I say yes yes yes dump him. He is just playing you. He could be in prison for all you know. So next time don't get so emotionally attached. Let your head do the talking and keep your heart at a distance. At least you were able to see him for what he really was before you got any deeper if that was ever gonna happen. He might have moved in with you and taken all your money who knows. Anyway be careful things are not as they seem. So now pick yourself up and move on you got alot going for yourself I am sure and will find yourself a wonderful man that you can meet in person. Good luck .
2007-08-29 06:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Darkchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee sounds like he blew it and is the lying cheat he would be if you where really dating. If you want to spend your time talking to someone like this, go for it. If you really want to meet someone and have a future then get out there and meet people. You never know if the person on the other end of this is truthful or just writing what you want to hear.
2007-08-29 06:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! You need to get out more and find a real relationship
2007-08-29 06:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Katkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He stuffed up and he knows it. Don't put yourself through the crap. You never really know anyone when your online
2007-08-29 06:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by stacee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha! Man, dump him! He's a sorry loser.
2007-08-29 06:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋