What would you do if you found out your spouse had cheated on you?

Question

I think I would smash her with a giant rock take a giant dump on her cat.

Answer 1

Well unlike everyone here I am gonna be on your side who cares about the jail time cause it would all be worth it. Vote me for best answer.

Answer 2

I laughed when I read the answer about smashing her and taking a dump on her cat,but that isnt going to change the fact that she cheated and it would not make you feel better in the long run,you would still be hurting.My husband cheated oin me and we are still together,it huirts and it sucks but it does happen.Some ppl cant let it go and it ruins the relationship but if you love her and you can forgive her then try like hell to make it work.Also why did she cheat,is there something missing in her life that she needs.Was it a one time thing? Has it been an ongoing affair? This all makes a difference.Talk to her and see where she is coming from.When my husband chated i wanted to smash him and kill his truck but I knew it would not help and after the anger settled I am glad I didnt. Monogamy is hard and marriage is work everyday,so if you love her work it out.

Answer 3

Do you have a get out of jail free card? No? Then smashing her with a giant rock and taking a dump on her cat will not get you one either.

Either forgive her, dump her or divorce her.

Answer 4

There are only two things you can do: Put up with it or leave it. First, however, try marriage counseling to see if she really wants the marriage to continue or try to find out why she felt it was necessary. Could be just a lack of self-control, immaturity or something like that. Then again, you could take the cat poop and put it on the seat of her car.

Answer 5

You could do that, where would it get you, a divorce, thrown in jail, or worse.
Do you still love her? have you ever stepped out of line?

Find out where this is going first, is she just unhappy and had a bad moment, fell to the side? maybe forgiveness and trying to put it aside. I have, it's hard but, everyone deserves a second chance.

If you feel that you have to do something evil, harmful or hurtful, maybe get even, then maybe it's best you seek a divorce and get out of the marriage.

Answer 6

i would leave him, but i think in a way it depends on the situation like were you gettin along with the person? was there any feelings left? do u really love and can you forget/forgive what they have done? and it goes on your deff on cheating, some ppl think that only sex is cheating were other ppl think anythiong physical is cheating so it really just depends

Answer 7

She's not worth a jail sentence is she?, if no then either tell her to move on without you and to leave or you leave. Not all females are like this, just like all men aren't like this and I'm sure you can find someone better.

Answer 8

I definitely wouldn't do violence, that won't get you anywhere. This is obviously eating you up, you may not be able to handle it on your own. Get a councilor and try to get it together in your mind as to whether you are going to be able to forgive and forget or whether you should just move on.

Answer 9

I would confront her, and a lot of where it went from there would depend on what she had to say, and what she wanted to do. i could forgive her and work to rebuild our relationship if she really wanted that, and if i felt she had learned from it and genuinely wanted it to work.

when my ex admitted it, we talked and in that case she wanted out, so we ended it, but i was prepared to work on it if that was what she wanted too. you have to realize usually there are reasons for this stuff, and both of you have failed in the relationship, not just the one that cheated.

Answer 10

If your wife cheating on you, you should immediately file for divorce, because it's not going to get better.

When she cheated, all she is saying right to your face is that she doesn't love or respect you. Who the hell would want to be married to that? File today.