i alowed my best friend and her boyfriend to stay over last night as they promissed they respected me and wouldnt do anything apart from cuddle so we all shared my big bed. about an hour after we went to bed however they thought i was asleep and started kissing really loudily and giving each other handjobs and making the bed move a hell of a lot, i know 100 percent what they were doing as i could hear it and fell them moving. would you say this was rude for doing this in my bed right next to me.?
2007-08-28 23:05:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes, I would say that was a bit rude and disrespectful of them...why didnt you speak up? Its your bed after all.
2007-08-28 23:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have said something right then and there. Since you did not, casually mention to your friend that you heard everything and that you were disappointed that she did not respect your wishes. Why couldn't he have slept on the sofa?
Next time just don't let them stay over.
2007-08-29 06:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, but I would have let them know I was awake and asked them to stop. If you allowed this to happen when you could have stopped it, is on you. Why didn't someone sleep on the couch? Like the boyfriend.
2007-08-29 06:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very. they disrespected your wishes which were made clear prior to the 'stay over'. next time, tell them to get a hotel, or at least take it to another room.
it was very bold of them to perform such personal acts with you right there next to them.
Talk about distasteful.....
2007-08-29 06:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by jilliebean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They obviously wanted you know and wanted you to join in...
Why would you let other people in your bed if you are not interested in the same?
2007-08-29 06:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by phate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is, ive deffinetly delt with the same thing more than once, what you should do is not let couples sleep in your bed. they can get their own spot.
2007-08-29 06:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by moonflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it was... cos its your bed. your bed is suppose to be your personal thing in life. as well goes to your room. and they infact said they respected you.. but their behaviour showed they didnt
2007-08-29 08:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by rosemelon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that is embarrassing and disrespectful especially when they are sharing your bed with you. they should mine their manners.
2007-08-29 06:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess this was rude and disrespectful!
2007-08-29 07:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Hendra W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea.
2007-08-29 06:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Darkchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋