I have been in a relationship with a really great guy for about a month and a half. In the beginning we really clicked and I was realy happy and into him. Now, although it has only been over a month, I feel like it is not really going much further. I am having my doubts whether I am ready for a relationship, especially one where the sparks have stopped flying already. Do you think I am being impatient and should give the relationship a fighting chance, or should I get out and end it before either of us gets too attached?
2007-08-28 23:33:36 · 6 answers · asked by Liv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol. im going through the same thing, and have been dealing with the same question all night. You know what I think? I think, if I stay in this, and work through it when I have so many doubts...will it work, or will i regret it later on knowing I should have ended it? I dont love him, and he doesnt love me. Its too early on, and as you said...the sparks are already dying off. I like him, and the feeling is mutual, but I already feel myself getting bored of him. However, did something happen that made you scared? Did he challenge you in some way that makes you say, forget it, im done? He did for me. So, I cant tell if im doing the whole cut and run, or if im doing the right thing. I dont know. Only you know. Do you want to leave bc you genuinely think it wont work? Or, are you scared of something and convincing yourself that its just not right?
2007-08-28 23:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night with me baby and the sparks would NEVER stop. So do yourself a favor and get out. He must be Mr lamo if it has only been a month and half, poor guy he has alot to learn.
2007-08-29 00:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by red04yr6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relationship is too new and in the early stage for you to be feeling the way that you are. yeah i think that you should end it now since you are feeling this way. GodBless
2007-08-28 23:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have thought long and hard on this, then you are most likely correct in your personal impression on things. It is time to move on.
2007-08-28 23:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is worth it to you then don't give up....if not get out
2007-08-31 01:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by mended.ticker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break! find ur self, later u gonna realize what is really good and deserving for you! it urself who gonna find the way for the answer. it takes time!
2007-08-28 23:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Henry A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋