my man asked me to go to the strip club the other day , and once in a while he will ask to go with his friends and i jus feel like if he needs to go see other women i aint enough for him is that true i don't know
2007-08-28 23:25:43 · 12 answers · asked by a529 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would not dig much in to it specially if he asked u to come with him maybe it just something that he enjoys doing for fun or maybe he is just trying to hint u by inviting u so u can see some of the stuff the girls do so u can try them at home .
2007-08-29 00:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by kolala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally if he's going with a couple of mates once in a blue moon you've got nothing to worry about - looking at girls is like looking at cars. It's not a case of you not being enough, it's not about that at all. If he had a supermodel for a girlfriend he would probably feel the same way.
However, if he was going on his own it would be something different I think, and if that's what he was doing I wouldn't stand for it.
2007-08-29 06:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Anon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have taken him up on his offer. I've been to a few of these places with my S.O. and it's been a lot of fun. You shouldn't feel threatened by it. These women aren't looking for a boyfriend and he's just getting some voyeuristic thrills. If he really felt like you weren't enough for him, he wouldn't have invited you. He also would do it behind your back. Sounds like he's been pretty open and honest about it. Go... relax... have some table dances and you'll create a voyeuristic fantasy that he'll remember for the rest of his life.
2007-09-02 00:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can afford to spend money on those girls, I would make sure that he is spending plenty on me too! I just don't trust strippers, but lost of guys got to the strip club every so often. I don't think that it has much to do with you period. I don't even think that he thinks about you when he is there.
2007-08-29 06:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so - he's a guy. 2 things - one is that probably a big part of it is just being one of the guys and all is friends are going and it would be HORRIBLE for him to say he can't or you won't let him. The second is he's a guy and that's what they do.
2007-08-29 06:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does he want to go looking at other women when he has you? I would kick up a stink. Why dont you strip and tease him? It might curve his attention to where it should be.... I'd put my foot down!
2007-08-29 06:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by stacee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He just wants to see something hot every once in a while.
2007-08-29 06:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg no.... i dont know why all women think guys shouldnt go to strip clubs. they think guys dont respect their wives if they go to a strip club.. bull. going to a strip club is just having fun
2007-08-29 06:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
amm yeah i would prob say that too....... i dont think like love and things i think your love is enough but he wants a lil more attraction with out cheating on u so in a way it may be a good thing
2007-08-29 06:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows what he's thinking, but in the end it's up to you to talk to him and ask why he wants to go there.
2007-08-29 06:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋