ok guys...heres the deal...im 22, smart, well educated, cute, & many have told me that im really beautiful...the thing is whenevr a cute guy approaches me, tries to talk or smth im like literally shaking! i dunno what happens to me, it must be Me geting really shy & my hands just shake!
it also happened to me when i met my bfs for the first time, or when i go to a blind date...thats normal i guess, but when u r at the mall, & some1 approaches me or act all cute, i get so anxious & i dont think thats normal...whys that? even at school when i meet a new guy i get that anxiety! although i was brought up in a very healthy environment & my parents didnt raise me to be like that whatsoever!
it the sexy guys syndrome? what can i do?
2007-08-28 23:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone gets nervous but some can play it cool - imagine how nervous the person is who is approaching you for the first time - you have to realize that you both are nervous - if you want to ease the tension, tell him "I don't know why I'm so nervous!" and he may say "Me, too" - at least you'll put it out there so if you act kinda weird he will know why
2007-09-05 19:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gorgeous guys can make a girl go speechless and weak in the knees, so I totally understand what you're going through. Makes you feel silly afterwards, doesn't it? Don't worry. Happens to most of us and that shyness or whatever it is seems to be endearing to many guys. As you get older, your confidence will be stronger and you'll not react so badly to gorgeous guys, but it never really goes away totally. Just be proud of yourself and give yourself credit for your qualities and some of that nervousness will dissipate.
2007-08-28 23:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people get nervous when they meet someon that is a potential companion, or someone that you have an interest in. Very normal!!
2007-08-28 23:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have social anxiety. do you get like that with everyone you meet for the first time? ask your doctor.
could be that your just shy?
2007-08-28 23:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Greeneyed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear something that makes you feel invinsible.
I wear high heeled boots! it makes me feel in control and makes me extremely confident even in front of DDG guys!!
2007-08-28 23:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by nadienia864 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋