Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

2007-08-30 01:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dumped my bf because i found out that while i slept one night he took numbers of my friends from my fone and put them on his phone,one of them he said he hates,he said he took it to put on the net for pple to prack call her,i no hes bunny boiler,but was it really because he fancies her??i deleted the numbers off there when i saw them

2007-08-30 01:40:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married very young. It wasn't exactly the dream wedding....more like a few family members in the town hall. So, I have really been looking forward to renewing our vows on our 10 year anniversary (in about a year and a half). I was going to do it in Florida, on the beach but I decided to do it in New Jersey so that all of my family and friends can attend. We are in the Newark/Jersey City area. I would really appreciate any suggestions!! Thanks a lot!!

2007-08-30 01:39:06 · 12 answers · asked by alk24238 2 in Weddings

i met a guy but nothing happened yet other than talking, becasue he said he likes thin girls, and has told me t loose weight and then he'll want me, im a 19yr old female and im size 18 but he wants me to be size 8

2007-08-30 01:35:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is a black girl. And she is fine as wine. Black guys have a huge issue with her being with me. They accuse her of being a gold digger. HAHAHAH. The fact is that she makes twice as much as me and is helping me to get through college. She has a masters degree in chemistry. She works for the St. Louis County forensics lab. She just likes the way that I put it to her every night and every morning. She is so freaking hot. She is the hottest chic that I have ever been with.

The question is why do black men want to screw every white woman on the planet, but they get all upset when they see a fine sister with a white guy? The blatent comments that we hear from black men are the most racist that I have ever heard. They have to find some excuse for why this fine sister would be with me. They cannot just accept that we met, we got alone, and we screwed like jack rabbits. Why can't black men just accept this. Let's not forget the fact that she is not an idiot.

2007-08-30 01:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 01:32:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I sort of already know the answer but I need some help.
My exgirlfriend is 12 and I'm 14 and we've been together twice but my exgirlfriend both times wanted a secret relationship because people tend to be a little imature in high school if they know anyone in those relationships, so we only ever told her bestfriends.
The first time we were together I tpld everyone and we broke up not because of that but because my exgirlfriend's bestfriend Steph had been bullied and she took it out on me a my ex so we thought it was because of us being together so we split up and I rang Steph that night so she told me whay she was upset and then by time the next day my ex had found out what I'd done and said she didn't want to go out with me again but we stayed friends.
About a month later my exgirlfriend asked if I wanted to kiss behind the Science Block and we got back together again on the same terms and this time I respected them and told no one.
I was a bit nervous about kissing so...

2007-08-30 01:27:23 · 14 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend rise up to the height of her voice when she does anything I don’t like. As I don’t like our neighbors enjoy our conflict I decide to go down and remain silent.
After she discovered this loopholes always when she annoy me when I ask she runs to the height of her voice so that the neighbors can hear it and I goes down to revert it.
So what can I do as I have bee telling her that I hate big voice in our room. I feel I am tiring with this behavior

2007-08-30 01:27:02 · 5 answers · asked by isimilo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 01:24:42 · 20 answers · asked by omarya1976 2 in Weddings

2007-08-30 01:24:10 · 21 answers · asked by staring sky07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

imagine she told me to go to a singles show and when my dad heard about it she denialed me saying that she did not even know what i am saying. Pls advice me

2007-08-30 01:21:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I come from a family where there was strict discipline. Since both me and my brother were very young (till about 14-15), we were spanked regularly by our parents (if we were bad).

Both me and my brother have been given bare bottom spankings when we had been really bad. My father used to typically administer this (and he had powerful arms!)..occasionally mommy.

I never saw it as abuse/anything wrong then. I never thought that my father spanking my bottom or mother spanking my brother is something wrong. But now i wonder?

Does a parent ever see their own children in a sexual manner? I know one thing - i never felt any shame (in a sexual way), when my father used to spank me....there was only fear and hurt.

The fact that he may be 'looking' at my privates did not shame me at all then(ditto for brother and mom). Then why is it such a big issue now????

Once when i was really sick & bedridden, my father even helped me with my bedpan (mommy was sick too)...again is it wrong??

2007-08-30 01:19:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok I need some help and fast. Today is my bday and I am 20. But ne ways, I am in a LDR with a guy who lives a little over an hour from me. He came to meet me in Feb. but hasnt came back since then, so I have only seen him one time. Well there is another guy who lives like 10 to 15 mins from me that likes me and I have been friends with him for awhile. Well the thing is, they both want to spend time with me this weekend. I cant seem to figure out what to do. I mean my current bf didnt even come down to see me cuz he was too busy and was out with friends and when he lost his job he still didnt bother to come down. Well the other guy that likes me told me that he wants to be with me and wants to see me this weekend. I am so confused on what to do cuz it is so hard. I like the other guy that likes me and hes making the effort to be with me but my bf isnt cuz he doesnt come around and my family thinks hes playing me. He said hes not tho. My ? is what would u do in this situtation?

2007-08-30 01:18:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a gf that cheated on me for 2 month and when i find out i forgave everything that she did in about 5 min after i find out and then she dose what ever she want and i will forgive her and say its fine but when i start to chat with the girl that i grow up with and i loved and i still do..she goes and says you love her and i cant coup with it and when i tell her she is my friend and she is in California and im in the uk how can anything happened btw me and my friend when there is a big distance btw me and her and i haven’t seen her for 8 years ... and i tell her all this and just to day she tells me that i cant fight for the love that you had all your life and stuff like that and tells me that i cant its over between us .. She doses all the cheating txting the guy the guys that she cheated on me and being so stupid..... And i still forgive her but she doesn’t see any of this and she still wana leave me... And I still love her but I don’t know what to do give me a way…plz

2007-08-30 01:08:46 · 10 answers · asked by yaboo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He sits next to me in homeroom and he is really nice and we have alot in commen. i know this sounds shallow but im already not popular and he asked me to the dance. Im scared of what people will think.HELP??

2007-08-30 01:08:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

somehow it came up and he said something about my mom and i said ha yeah my sis likes you too but i was kidding and he goes really? and im like .....you like my sister??? and hes like blabla eh a little crush and im like omg i cant believe you like my sister and i was pissed but i mean i dunno, he DID tell me the truth..but i think we'd be better off if he lied..ughhh idk if i should be mad or what. my sisters 19, 4 years older and she has a kid..so i mean they couldn't get together but he likes her..i really don't know wheather to be mad or what. he was trying to convince me it was a 'teenyweenylittleitsybitsycrush' and shes 'cute in a lil way' pleeeeease help me.

2007-08-30 00:48:06 · 9 answers · asked by aarchangelxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I had just came back from riding my horse, so my eyeliner was smudged because I was sweating. So my bf's friend was like why were you crying? And I said I wasn't crying I just came back from riding and since it was 93 degrees out I was sweating. And my bf was like, "So you sweat from your eyes? Really? You might want to uh....get that checked out, ya know?" And he started laughing and all his friends did too. Why would be put me into an embarassing situation like that?

2007-08-30 00:40:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

most times eveything is fine but now and again he goes funny
not replied to a few texts since monday from me?
should i ring his work place (its his business) or just not contact him and wait.
its makin me really anxious but i dont want to bug him.

2007-08-30 00:34:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am now putting myself back on the market and people keep telling me that i need to "put myself out there more" i have no clue what this even means... I am just looking for a girl to make happy and someone to spend time with.. but what does i need to put myself out there more mean... and how do i do this

2007-08-30 00:31:10 · 2 answers · asked by Jesse N 2 in Singles & Dating

just asking it of curiousity. to know the avg. age XX

2007-08-30 00:28:53 · 32 answers · asked by Kriti 2 in Friends

do they try to tell you something??

2007-08-30 00:26:30 · 2 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My Ex and me broke up once again last week. I swear it's like an episode of "How the Stomach Turns". Usually she tells me "Don't email, Don't call, Don't bother me" but this time for the first time it was me doing it instead of her. Then she jumped on the band wagon and started saying it to me. Don't email me, Don't bother me. When I would respond to what she was saying. Anyhow, to make a long story short. A friend of mind played a joke on her and told her I died. I know it's not good and I decided to tell the truth and so I emailed her and a bunch of other friends of mine to make it look good and said surprise so and so played a joke I'm not dead. Then I emailed the same people that I had some collectables for sale. Well she emailed me and said "Take me off your list, I don't know your friends, don't want to know your friends or what you are selling". Nothing about me being dead or whatever, lol. Then she forwarded me several emails from the same person that emailed her.

2007-08-30 00:24:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 00:23:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 24, she is 23 we live North India.We both of them enjoyed adult talks.Even we exchange mail and SMSES.She is very bold girl. Due to her family, we got little time to meet.How can I approach to start touching,kissing.. her ? Any tips,advice and flirting skills will be highly appreciated.

2007-08-30 00:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

suppose that your job is :

very stressfull,
less paid (like pocket money),
multidisiplinary ,
time consuming,
the places are dirty,
unfair,
it is your supplementary work (like spare time work -not your profession).

what should i consider before quitting this kind of job ? i cant decide what to do because i got accustomed to be there for a long time.

shall i give a break or quit it forever ?

i have a right to give a break in theory, but my managers wont be happy with it and probably they will make psychological pressure on me by saying "you shoudlnt have given a break. couldnt you continue 1 day in a week ? it is very negative point for you. your abilities wont improve during the break." etc. they will interpose the same thigns when i came back too.
they expect you to devote yourself to that thing. i ve other needs and my nerves arent made of iron. those caprices will hurt me. so i thought it is better to quit it forever.

what do you think ?

2007-08-30 00:15:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We just found out he's got type 1 diabetes and will have to be on insulin for the rest of his life. Usually we deal with it ok, but I work nights, and when he's home alone it really hits him hard. He's broken down at least once a week and had an anxiety attack while I'm at work. I've started to look for a different job so that we can be home together at night, but what else can I do?

2007-08-30 00:15:25 · 11 answers · asked by Chelle O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am catholic and married to a muslim woman and our marriage is registered in India. we are both indians. Can we stay in the UAE together.

2007-08-30 00:09:54 · 15 answers · asked by sheldon d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do your BF, hubby, FWB care?
If you are an itty bitty have you considered breast enlargement and if you are well endowed considered breast reduction?

As a proud itty bitty, LOL, my BF asked me why do I bother even wearing a bra! He's a smart azz like that, but I have a sense of humor and thought maybe I won't wear a bra today or ever!
LMAO...

2007-08-30 00:08:31 · 1 answers · asked by ♥♥JDub♥♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

Only assets not in a trust are refund checks and health insurance checks. Beneficiary of will is trust.

2007-08-30 00:05:40 · 1 answers · asked by sherry g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well,me and my fiancee is goin to wed on the next 4 months.both of us are soo excited!bcause this is what we've been waiting for.the prob is,my dad family doesnt like my fiancee.whom i've been with for more than 7 years.my fam told me that the reason why they don't like him,is bcause he came from different family background .his parents divorce when he was 13,and since that time,he lives by himself.then about his rehab story!i know he used to be a very bad guy,who grown up without anyone!
what should i do?i do love him soo much
im 25 and he is 27.he doesnt has any financial problem.and both of us dont have any children

2007-08-30 00:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating