Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

When a girl has amplified what she has (using pushup or padded bras) and there is NOT a medical reason for it (ie nothing had to be removed).

What reaction(s) have you gotten (or received) when you finally take it off and the guy sees that what you have is considerably less than what they thought?

Serious answers only please.

2007-08-30 06:19:18 · 11 answers · asked by .... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 06:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by SUNSHINE 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, ive met this guy that i really like, to me i thort he felt sumfing for me cause he would always stare at me and when i looked at him he would look away, and he would always make me notice him, he was always in my mind so as soon as i asked him for his number he told me he was married, i was so shattered, i feel so embarrased.
why would he do that, please i need advice on this.

2007-08-30 06:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is getting married in two months. She got engaged last week. She doesn't want the big expensive thing, because she thinks our whole idea of what a wedding should be is more about what advertisers tell us than about two people committing to one another. So she doesn't want just bargain version of a "traditional" wedding. But she does want my help.

I don't know where to start. We're thinking around fifty guests. There's one matron of honor (me) and a best man. She wants both of their families involved. Somehow.

Anyone have any good ideas?

2007-08-30 06:15:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What would your "ideal" woman be like?

2007-08-30 06:13:42 · 12 answers · asked by emkay4597 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 06:13:12 · 4 answers · asked by VANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

Just to say 'Hi' no urgency at all

2007-08-30 06:12:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever been hit on by another guy?

2007-08-30 06:11:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lived with this girl for 2 years we actually moved to Boston together so I thought so was a good friend, nope. I got engaged Sat and was texting everyone. Everyone I called me back but her to ask how did it happen? I talked to her earlier in the day before it happened and she sounded depressed so did not want to make her worse and brag, plus she told me she was true drunk to call anyways and was having a rough time with the news. She said she didn't think she was suppose to call. Why can't she be happy for her friend? I was even going to have her as a bridemaid but not anymore, not a good friend.

2007-08-30 06:11:12 · 18 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

young Lady in an Asian country...Last year he came to visit family and my Son took him to Our Church where we raised our children for almost 15 years...(I no longer attend that church)..Well, what does David do? He is showing the church members photos of his "new family" Can you believe the disrespect for me...What do you think about that? I sat in church with that man for 15 years and he took off with another woman and now he has the gall to show up with photos of his "new family"...Do you think he is being rude? Or just a continuing idiot? Thanks

2007-08-30 06:09:47 · 22 answers · asked by broker472000 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to kill his heart but I know in my heart we are not meant to be. Too many dealbreakers. I have never ended a relationship before. Please help!!!!

2007-08-30 06:09:25 · 43 answers · asked by stargazerlilly 1 in Weddings

My husbands sister and I dont get along she starts conflict even though I try to be very nice to her, it just doesnt work. I think she is just a miserable person and wants others to be as well.. Anyway the question is my husband stands up for me for only a moment and then gets angry with me when we talk about the mean things she does. Today my husband told me to but out of his sister and his business i called him back and he said that the hurtful things that she said were to him in privacy and none of my business even though they were about me. I dont think that I should stay with someone that doesnt put my feelings first... I have spoken with him about how she makes me feel and the neg impact on our family. He told me that she is his sister.... Do you think that I should just move on? I dont think this will ever change or get better....

2007-08-30 06:08:16 · 7 answers · asked by mama 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is a photographer, and I respect the work he does. But when a girl leaves her underwear at his house (he has his studio set up there) shouldn't I have every right to be upset? He has told me over and over everything that happened and has constantly tried to make sure I know nothing happened. Honestly, he's an amazing boyfriend and I couldn't ask for anything else, but when this happens I get really insecure mostly about myself. I finally send the girl a message and below is the conversation.

2007-08-30 06:06:19 · 1 answers · asked by salpy_talian 2 in Singles & Dating

Isn't it "our" day if anything? Just curious.

2007-08-30 06:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by Bill 6 in Weddings

I seem to be attracted to them for some reason and I can't help it...I don't mind dating guys who are bi but it makes me kind of freaked out that they've been with guys. Should this make a difference in my relationships? Are guys who are bi not as trustworthy??

2007-08-30 06:05:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whether it be books, magazines, dvd, vcr, vhs, pc, movies.*

2007-08-30 06:00:58 · 22 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been living with my bf for over a year now, we have a child together, and i do everything a wife should already do.... and he still hasnt asked me to marry him!! Am i waisting my time.... just looking for some friendly advice....

2007-08-30 05:58:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are thinking of bringing the wedding forward to Friday 15th August 2008.
Just wondering what day you married on and if it worked for you?

2007-08-30 05:56:45 · 43 answers · asked by Emma L 3 in Weddings

a man who constanly feel gulity about how he treated his adult children 10 years ago? He is causing financial difficulty because of the hand outs his kids beg for. They are both adults and one has children, but they use daddys guilt to milk us dry. Should I leave or what? I'm at my wits end with this- it's been going on for 3 years.

2007-08-30 05:56:42 · 4 answers · asked by heather 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When me and my ex split up he pretty much abandoned my olderst daughter(who is not biologically) his but he did raise her from the age of 2. She's 8 now. He hasn't included her in anything & only comes to pick up my other two children who are his. We've tried to work things out & he'll really only have anything to do w/ my her if I'm around. I talked to him about it & he says he told her she could call him whenever she wanted to come over but he makes no effort to include her so she doesn't. She's a very smart lil girl. She hates him now & we've kinda been trying to work things out again & she does not want me to go back to him what so ever. I feel bad for my other two children if we stay split up but then I feel bad for her if I go back to him. He even forbid her from going to her sisters b-day party cause he was mad at me & then made comments to people about that being my dam daughter & she could go to the party I had for the baby. The sad thing is I still luv him despite all this

2007-08-30 05:56:29 · 4 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 05:54:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 and i've got parents who are immigrants from india.. they're all bout having a perfect education and marrying someone of the same race & religion.they never let me go out with friends unless they absolutely know them and they're parents. and knowing a boy is Satan to them. now that i'm in high school i think its time they start letting go. but how can i do that?

2007-08-30 05:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by EmOESKiMo 1 in Family

Me and this guy live in different states. We met each other few months ago on our vacation to Hawaii. We got involved romantically and yeah... sexually. Everything was great. However, I told him that I wasn't ready for a serious relationship and so did he. We remained just friends.

Back to our home, every time I went to his state (where he lives) for business, I'd look him up and we went dinner and partying. We talked everything. He talked about his job, friends and stuffs. We always have endless conversation. However, we never really discussed anything like boy/girlfriend, relationship and stuffs. But, we do look like lovers.

He's a very shy guy. He's emotional guy but he never wants to show it. He's caring and he's like a sugar daddy. I know very well that he's happy being with me. I always make him smile and feel good about himself.

2007-08-30 05:50:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know whether to try and work at my relationship and carry on or just leave. There is no effort from my partner but he says that he loves me.
I really haven't a clue what to do, I could give more details but I'd be here all day, just go with your instinct, all answers greatly appreciated.

Thank You!

2007-08-30 05:50:22 · 14 answers · asked by holi_k 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The wedding and reception will be held on June 21st of 2008...I know i will be making my entrance into the reception with my wedding gown still on...what would be appropriate for me to change into to enjoy the rest of my night? We want to keep the reception formally dressed...should i just get another sort of dress to match my wedding colors? I need help please!

2007-08-30 05:49:37 · 18 answers · asked by lilprincess 2 in Weddings

2007-08-30 05:49:09 · 7 answers · asked by SUNSHINE 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 05:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by lonelyone64 1 in Family

Yesterday my wife told me that she excepts me smoking Marijuana, and talking to my female friends.Both of which she had a problem with since we've been married, and both I've tried to curtail to please her.Later she had this dark attitude about it, saying"just give me some time".So I thought about it,now I"m resenting the fact that she should've accepted me in the begining, and that this is sending me into an emotional rollercoster, and after two years of marriage, Im tired of the emotional bullshit!This morning I just shut down, and now shes playing that control game of"do you need the car because I have to run some errands", and besides you are just going to be chatting online anyway".Now I am expecting a job to start as early as today, with no way to get there, no money, or nothing!She even woke me up to go to the bathroom as if she was in a rush to leave, I get up, and in all of 20 seconds I was ready, but she wasnt.Two years of this yall 2 years, and no change, wheres the love?

2007-08-30 05:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by Square Root 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I have extremely vivid dreams that seem to be too real, even though I usually know I'm dreaming.. for some reason yesterday I had a dream that I didn't realize was dream.. if you understand that. Anyway it started out normal, I was watching Hulk Hogan before I went to sleep so when I started dreaming I was in a hospital because Nick had gotten into a car accident. Anyway his heart started having irregular palpitations, I looked over to the monitor and looked back to see that now it was my family in the room and my grandmother there, she was having a heart attack. I immediately panicked and simply watched her die. It was too real, the conversations that were taking place, the people there, the room, I remember hugging her and feeling her actually there so that scared the crap out of me, and I thought I wasn't dreaming. In the dream I had a conversation with my mom, we were basically blaming ourselves for her death. Could it be we're hurting her somehow and I'm blaming myself subcon?

2007-08-30 05:43:13 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-30 05:41:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce