Ok, ive met this guy that i really like, to me i thort he felt sumfing for me cause he would always stare at me and when i looked at him he would look away, and he would always make me notice him, he was always in my mind so as soon as i asked him for his number he told me he was married, i was so shattered, i feel so embarrased.
why would he do that, please i need advice on this.
2007-08-30 06:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you need advice? He's married. End of story. Get over it and move on.
2007-08-30 06:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel embarrassed by this. He at least let you know he was married. Maybe he thought you were nice to look at and when you returned the look he was embarrassed himself.
No need to take this further, just a quick attraction between two that stopped like it should of.
2007-08-30 06:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by stormey_84074 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like JEEP said he may have found you attractive. Just cause hes married doesn't mean his dead. I am sure married women check out hot guys too. You should take it as a compliment but don't read too much into it... Plus harmless flurting can't hurt anyone as long as you are honest with each other.
2007-08-30 06:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by oppy911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people will admire another person for what ever reason. You should be glad that the man told you up front that he was married as allot of them would not. He was just telling you that he is out of reach. Maybe he was just admiring you as allot of people do. Then when you looked at him, he looked away out of the fear of being caught. This is what it sounds like to me anyway.
2007-08-30 06:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to mention this however, he isnt that kinda man that merits a distinct or well woman such as you. Hes utterly watching for bitches. Cuz whos rather then bitches that hug a boy and with out a intent? I believe u must cross on. But even as, while he hugs(if he did) simply inform him what you think precisely! And approximately that hes a playboy, u would possibly difference him if he relatively cherished you :).. so LEAVE HIM OR WAIT ;)
2016-09-05 18:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone thinks your pretty doesn't always mean that they want to be with you. I think because you were falling for this guy you saw his actions as something more than what they really were. I'm sorry this happened to you, but as they say, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-08-30 06:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest,
There is a big difference between shopping and buying.
After 17 years of marriage, I look at cars I can't afford, boats I can't afford and women I can't afford. But window shoping is a guys way of keeping his interest up. He needs someone to think about when he is with that ole lady of his yet again. Just like we like to think of that Ferrari while driving around our old beaters. Same thing.
Too bad he would let you give him a fling, poor guy probably needs it.
2007-08-30 06:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by btceng64 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Married people flirt and look in a very innocent way. Be grateful that he told you he was married before it went any further.
2007-08-30 06:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by The thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does like you and he is attracted to you, but take comfort in that he isn't allowing himself to get involved in this situation. He admires you, likes you, and maybe even secretly wonders and fantasizes about what it would be like to be with you (in a relationship). He is doing his best to keep true to his vows and values. Unless he actually isn't married, then he just doesn't like you.
2007-08-30 06:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE probably sawa something that caught his eye and like you. The problem is with guys, they will always look at the menu, even if they are on a diet.
2007-08-30 06:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by jeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋