Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

2007-08-30 04:12:02 · 27 answers · asked by confusi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 04:11:26 · 5 answers · asked by debbiedo06057 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has cheated on me at least 2 times I know of and I have been thinking of ending it. Well about 2 weeks ago his brother brought me something for my son, and he stuck around for a bit. We were talking outside and he kissed my neck then kissed me. Now things are still going on and I couldn't be happier. I have fallen for him, because I knew things were over between me and my husband. I was sticking it out more for our kids. But we both have said we want to be together forever, the bond is so strong I have not been this happy in years. What do we do. He is going threw a divorce and I am leaving my husband this weekend. I can't think of the last time I was this happy. We have not has sex or anything like that but we tell eachother we love eachother. This is a feeling like no other... I don't know what to do now.. Anyone one with honest advise?

2007-08-30 04:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by so lost in life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

any ideas.....?

2007-08-30 04:10:40 · 2 answers · asked by xangelheidix 2 in Weddings

Let me start with I have an irrational fear of rejection.

I want to ask this girl out, but I think she might say no. In the past I have used the fear of rejection as a way to psychic myself out of asking girls out, I really want to stop that. I think I am afraid that I will look stupid so I usually wait too long to ask the girl out.

Please do not say “the worst that could happen is she says no.” The very first girl I ever asked out laughed at me in front of all my friends saying “HELL NO!!” So while my fear of rejection is irrational it is not unfounded.

Also please do not say “just get over it and do it.” If I could do that my fear would not be irrational. I am working on the how to deal with the fear.

I just want to know what do I say after she says ‘no,’ how do I play it ‘cool?’

Any help would be appreciated?

2007-08-30 04:10:11 · 16 answers · asked by The Teacher 6 in Singles & Dating

Would you file charges?
I have reason to suspect that my EX hubby has used my children's information to attain credit. We are still on good terms dispite the divorce..etc. I haven't confronted him about this yet. I won't put up w/ this though. I just don't think that anyone else would have their information. And the ones who would have it would never damage their future like that. So, my question to you is...

Would you file charges against your EX if you were in this situation?

Should I just go straight to the police and file a report (as if I didn't suspect him)? Or, should I ask him about it first?

2007-08-30 04:04:20 · 23 answers · asked by JustAskin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 04:00:39 · 24 answers · asked by indiansbearsandangels 3 in Weddings

We were married 10 yrs and have 2 children. I wanted counseling, but he refused. I asked how can I be a better wife. I'm not saying that I was perfect. He really scarred me emotionally to the point where I felt like nothing. There was no physical abuse. He always threatened divorce and wanted space so he can see where he wanted to be. He packed and moved twice and I told him one more time I'm gone. Well he did it the third time and I left. I gave him what he wanted and now he's giving me so much grief. He wanted to reconcile, but i continued to see the same pattern in him. He still has a place in my heart. He took me to court for custody, he called Child Protection on me, he withholds his child support, I have an upcoming court date, he constantly keeps up strife with kids.

2007-08-30 04:00:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I Paid 4.33 @ The Village Pantry This Morning.

For Some MARLBORO'S 'Cause They're Smooth Like The Fonz

how much and what brand

2007-08-30 03:55:09 · 33 answers · asked by BEAVIS 3 in Singles & Dating

He has in the past been mentally abusive, threatening. I was not allowed to have a phone, car or a job until we had been married for approx. 6 yrs. I was allowed a job only because our 3 children could not be supported on his income alone. I am not allowed to "go out" with any friends (even shopping) and if I rebel and do it anyway there is the 3 day arguement when I return. Over the past 2 yrs, my husband has experienced ED and premature ejac. I have been very understanding, we have talked, gone to counseling, spoke with the MD. Even before this we had problems because of the way I was treated. When I would threaten to leave when the kids were small, he would threaten me back with I would never see them again. Now that the kids are almost grown he threatens me with "I'll kill myself". My therapist says he has nothing else to hold over my head and he is desperate. When we have sex, which has to be scheduled for viagra purposes, it disgusts me! Also, I am not allowed to move during sex.

2007-08-30 03:53:23 · 32 answers · asked by goldpony2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i say exactly to a girl in a club? And please don't tell me be yourself or anything like that, I just want to know what I could say.

2007-08-30 03:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by hot_kandi 2 in Singles & Dating

i have known my bf for 10mons but we got engaged after 9mons we talk bout our future together so we know that were ready. we know marriage is hard but were both very commited to eachother to make this work i know in my heart hes the one for me. how long did you wait to get enaged and would you change anything about it

2007-08-30 03:52:40 · 30 answers · asked by KRYSTLE M 3 in Weddings

Do you think it is ok to call your spouse a B!+c# if you "think she is acting like one" but she does not believe she was?" Why can't I get over this? The hubby and I got into an argument over the phone ending in him calling me the above word and hanging up on me. I believe we are both at fault for this and told him. I apologized for the things I thought I was at fault for and expected him to apologize, at the very least, for the name calling. He still stands by his word choice. He defines a B**** as a woman who is not "using her head." Is that what you guys think? Please help me with this and be honest but tactful.

2007-08-30 03:52:13 · 13 answers · asked by boxiedoxie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she is A PRISONER in her life w/him he goes 2 her dr app. sets them up fills out the questoins 4 her.. he just down grades her whem they are 2gther. I want her 2 leave but she is afraid to becase she loves him and think it will hurt him!!
I think he is starting to be physcally vciolent to her , he is already emotionally violent!! he shows her pictures of him w/other girls and he is kissin on them and more .
on top of all this he tells her she is fat and a whore ect.. all the time i want her to leave but how to get her to !?

2007-08-30 03:51:10 · 22 answers · asked by Misty j 2 in Singles & Dating

the reason that makes me to ask such a question is that i met a girl whom i fell in love with and the girl was now telling me that her father will kill her if hears that she is moving out with a guy.and that i should not call her and even if i see her on the road coming with her father should pretend as if i do not know her at all.this arouses the question of a state or condition of a relationship without communication?

2007-08-30 03:51:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was the matron of honor in my cousins wedding. Well after the wedding me and the best man hooked up. We were both married and had families. So we knew the consquences before hand. Anyway we started sneeking around seeing each other. We never intended on being with each other it was only a"lust" thing. But I think that I may have developed some feeling for him. But both of our spouses found out and his wife left him and me and my husband are seperated. But now he doesn't want anything to do with me. He wants his family back but his wife doesn't want him. What am I to do I feel so stupid because I still want him in my life. What should I do to get over him?

2007-08-30 03:49:24 · 15 answers · asked by Punkin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

was your first few weeks of marriage (or even a month) 'the honeymoon bliss' that everyone talks about.. or was it hard and stressful?
I recently got married and it's been a constant agruement and struggle....

2007-08-30 03:48:34 · 13 answers · asked by stephanie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 03:47:02 · 6 answers · asked by tt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what should I do, confront him, lay low or just leave him?

2007-08-30 03:46:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met another woman, 2 kids at park/indoor play area. we became friends, exchanged numbers, meet at parks etc with our kids. yesterday she called to meet at mcdonalds play area. i went. brought one child cuz my other kid stayed and slept over her friends. i met her there with her 2 kids and one of mine. an employee and mcdonalds finished her shift and came over to talk to my new friend. it seemed like they already knew each other. my friend told me she was gonna walk her out (emloyee friend) to her car and would probably have a quick smoke and be rite back. i said "fine, no problem". well, she must have been gone for at least an hour leaving me not only to watch my son, who is only 4 and her 2 kids. i was so mad, i left with my son. when she saw me leave, she and friend ended talk quickly. she asked me where i was going. i told her i was leaving. she apolized. she called me later that nite about 4 times saying sorry. never answer her calls. what should i do. thanks

2007-08-30 03:44:05 · 31 answers · asked by havingfun 4 in Marriage & Divorce

before that i don,t know that my husband can,t go with me but today he said that he can,t go with me cuz his work i am so afraid i can,t do it alone.before that i have make my mind that my husband is going with me but today i am realy afraid that what happened with me at the delivery time its my first baby?

2007-08-30 03:42:02 · 2 answers · asked by sehrish s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been married for 13yrs. I am 33 she is 32,we have 5 kids.
She has recently told me she her feelings for me have changed.She says theres nothing there,
What should I do.Should I take it and move on or fight for our marriage....I have always been faithful to my wife..she is my best friend and I thought she was my soul mate.

2007-08-30 03:40:14 · 34 answers · asked by shellhiggs07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance's ex asked him how much he paid for my ring. I think she should mind her own business, but he thinks it's a valid question from someone he's known for a long time.

2007-08-30 03:38:59 · 29 answers · asked by jen b 2 in Weddings

My husband and I both get brazilian sugarings (like waxing) and we both love it. I started a few years ago and encouraged him to try it last year. We go every four weeks together.

Although he really likes being "bare", he's now embarrassed to use the showers at the gym and the pool and waits until he gets home to shower. Do you think that most guys would feel this way? Would anyone even notice? I have no problem with showering at the gym, but I'm sure it's different for guys.

2007-08-30 03:38:51 · 7 answers · asked by jc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

answer me win my heart :)

2007-08-30 03:35:21 · 18 answers · asked by kokri007 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i need help im 14 weeks pregnant and my b/f is cheating on me. i think kids should be around there parents but he has a 20 month old that he gets ever other weekend but his mom pickes her up and keeps he all weekend and drops her back off he never has her. and he has a tepmer he alredy put a hole in the wall and he slams things around and kicks stuff all the time i dont want my baby around that... is there a way i can keep him away from the baby? i dont even want child support from him he only pay 30 bucks a week for his other kid so i woouldnt get much. if i dont put his name on the birth certifate *sp* will that be able to keep him from seeing the baby? any help please!

2007-08-30 03:34:43 · 2 answers · asked by **Wishing For A 2010 Baby** 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this not due to the fact that wedding ceremonies over the last 30 years have fallen?
Not the institution it was 30 years ago.

2007-08-30 03:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by mlud12000 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 03:33:46 · 7 answers · asked by greeneyes211 2 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I got my first spanking. (with belt) :( 4 about 15 minutes.
I learned my lesson but will I get another soon?
I don't want to be like the girls who gets spanked almost everyday.
The reason I got spanked on my bare *** was cause I stole my dad's credit card. What can I do to stay out of trouble and not get spanked. I don't mind a few pats on my bottom but not like yesterday. Help!

2007-08-30 03:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by popstar901 2 in Family

This is my first wedding so I don't know do the caterers usually do this or who should I contact about setting up and open bar at my wedding?

2007-08-30 03:31:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings