the reason that makes me to ask such a question is that i met a girl whom i fell in love with and the girl was now telling me that her father will kill her if hears that she is moving out with a guy.and that i should not call her and even if i see her on the road coming with her father should pretend as if i do not know her at all.this arouses the question of a state or condition of a relationship without communication?
2007-08-30 03:51:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a relationship is a friendship between 2 people. how can you be friends if you can't even speak? how can you maintain a relationship if you can talk about your day or your feelings or anything else. it sounds like she is using her dad as an excuse and may feel bad to tell you she doesnt like you.
2007-08-30 03:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay in my opinion your question doesn't relate to your problem...Anyway, you are in a very weird situation right now. I have never heard of a grown women being afraid to tell her father that she is involved with a man...unless she is under age. I would hope very seriously that you are not dating someone that is under age, if so, I suggest you find someone your own age. Any how, if that doesn't apply to you, you need to talk to her to see what the problem is and why she has to hide you from her dad. It sounds like she is not telling you everything. I think she has some real issue and you need to get to the bottom of it. Moreover, this is not a healthy relationship. Anytime you have to date in secret.
2007-08-30 11:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sexysass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there can not be a relationship without communication.
any social relationship is based on the concept of adaptability between what you want and what others want. how can you understand her needs and her way of life, her values, her thoughts, without real communication with her..
you have to face that your feelings are not true.. they are just reflections from your aroused imagination.. your imagination is just making her as a princess to you. and will idealize her more and more.. till you have the chance to communicate with her and then discover she was not that ideal person you thought of.. and this will be un-fair to her as you compare her to the character in your mind
from your questions it seems you are not ready to get married.. and i think you may be from the middle east.. so i suggest to leave the whole matter. and concentrate on your study (or career).. and have faith in God that he keeps the good for you in the future.
2007-08-30 10:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by helix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to get rid of you. Communication is the most important element of a functional relationship, romantic or otherwise. t sounds like she wants to remove any communication with you. Ask her directly if she's trying to get rid of you. It will hurt in the beginning, but it's better then letting it drag on and making the pain worse.
2007-08-30 10:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by nawlinsraider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to tell you that no relationship can succeed without communication. it's a necessity just like food and water. You are all adults, nothing can be resolved by sweeping it under the carpet...If she doesn't agree, move on.
2007-08-30 10:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by partygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is tough when the parent is involved. i think you shld play it cool for the time being. be there for her as much as she needs you but dont give her problems with her father. You must sympathise her in this matter. She might get hurt. Be prudent n wait.
2007-08-30 11:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by candie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop things with this girl and go find a woman...No relationship lasts without GOOD COMMUNACATION....
2007-08-30 10:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What relationship?
2007-08-30 10:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..communication is a big key in a relationship.without it it wont work.
2007-08-30 11:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's impossible,,, u need to have communication with each other...
2007-08-30 10:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by back2future 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋