2007-08-30 04:12:02 · 27 answers · asked by confusi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it would turn me on, especially if it were my partner =)
2007-08-30 04:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Moosey 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Is this a husband or wife watching porn? Is this relationship a secure relationship or does it have issues? You can respect someone for some issues of their lives, but have no respect for other issues.
If you are someone who feels that porn is dirty and disrespectful and you catch someone who you respect watching porn, it would probably make me feel like I wouldn't want to be around that person anymore. That they "lied" to me about who they were.
If porn doesn't bother you and you could care not one wit one way or the other and you find someone you respect watching it. You probably wouldn't care. If it wasn't your style...well you could always tell that person that you respect to have "fun". And go on to other things that interest you.
Me personally...if I found out a person got a kick out of watching porn and it was someone I respected...It would depend on who that person was....I would either be shocked senseless or really could care less.
Hey I don't watch porn...it's not for me...I would rather have my own little private show just between me and my hubby. But if other people get off on it and it floats their boat...well more power to them. It just doesn't float mine.
2007-08-30 11:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok hun, first of all, you have to figure into this whether or not you see it as a good or bad thing watching porn. If you respect the person it shouldnt make a difference. Now if its my love intrest I would really enjoy seeing what they like and dont like as far as what they watch, and perhaps seeing some common ground or something that we can incorporate into our sessions that would make things even better would be awesome...so dont take it negative, it turns aloooot of people on, so get over the hangup and get your groove on! Take Care!-Rachel.
2007-08-30 11:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't like even thinking about my boyfriend watching porn, but that is because I have self-image issues and I realize that. But I don't not respect him or want to break up with him over it.
It's porn, which is farrrrrrr better than cheating on me.
Basically, there it is something I have chosen to accept.
So you can chose to accept it and move on, or not and go from there.
2007-08-30 11:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually i do nothing. Of course it is kind of awkward at first but when you think about it who hasn´t watch porn once!
2007-08-30 11:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Deena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that their is more to them than the part of them that I respect and understand that they are human and open to all the same emotions, wants and desires as myself.
2007-08-30 12:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was talking about this last night, It used to bug me when I would catch my husband with magazines and stuff, actually I went through lots of this with every man I've been with, I guess you can say I'm 36 and I don't really care anymore.
Really.....
2007-08-30 11:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by ShiftyShadyBitch 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, just had this battle with hubby the other day. While he does not watch porn (at least to my knowledge he doesn't), he does happen to switch on tv shows with young, big boobed women. When he does this I immediately start picturing him as a middle aged, overweight sleezebag and I lose respect immediately and he knows it because I've told him. I would not respect anyone who watches porn, especially another spouse.
2007-08-30 11:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by kikio 6 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Respect them more for not being afraid or ashamed of making themselves feel good.
2007-08-30 11:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a bottle of wine, pull up a chair and join in and watch.
2007-08-31 08:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by willie_mosconi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and ask them to turn up the volume a little
2007-08-30 11:23:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋