Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

I feel like I have a problem being too sensitive. I am a friendly person and if I sometimes write a message to someone on myspace for example like an acquantaince to say hi etc. and they don't answer it hurts my feelings. I am like a big people pleaser and I want everyone to like me. If something says something that's not so nice about me, I feel awful. I wish I could just be like those people who rub it off, don't care, and move on.

2007-08-30 08:38:52 · 25 answers · asked by Ebony 2 in Family

When I was about 5 or 6 my brother started to rap me at night for about 3 years and I never toed no one. Now that I'm older (21) I am sceard of the dark because of it and now i have a boyfriend that i live with and like to touch me at night you know like put his legs or arms around me and I dont like it. It make me wake out of my sleep sceard that its my brother that is touching. Now he think that it was a bad idea for us to live toghter because I wont sleep next to him when we sleep or let him touch me and he think that i dont went to be with him any more.
I love him very much and went to stay together but how can i tell him what happen to me and the reson why i dont like him touching me when i'm sleep without him judging me.

2007-08-30 08:38:48 · 26 answers · asked by Keia 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in student accomodation. Most people who know me know I'm a christian. I'm still a virgin. There's guy who lives in my building. I wouldn't like him for a long term relationship. But I would like to sleep with him. I'm a virgin..but it's because I don't really date and the one guy I did date wanted to wait. If I sleep with this guy, are people going to think less of me? Or judge me because as a christian I should be more ethical? I'm 24 years old. One of my friends was talking to me assuming I would wait for marriage and trying to convince me to only wait for love..the funny thing is I'm not sure I can even wait for love..I'm sick of waiting for love. I'm starting to doubt it's going to happen.

2007-08-30 08:38:38 · 37 answers · asked by shaomit 3 in Singles & Dating

Should household and administrated (related to the home) task be divided up by gender or skill sets? How do you divide up things?

2007-08-30 08:38:25 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 08:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by zul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15. i havent seen grandma for 2 weeks. i usually see her once a week. she never calls me because she is always busy. i always have to call her. i havent called her for a week and she still wont call me. i left dozens of voicemails and she wont return my calls. i hate it when she neglects me. i cry every night because i miss her. everyday i sit home bored and everyday is wasted because i sit around waiting for grandma to call. tomorrow im gonna wait around for grandma. how can i make her call me? when i talk to her next, she will say "what havent you been calling me?" then what do i say?

2007-08-30 08:37:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Because you were afraid you might not find anyone better? Be honest!

2007-08-30 08:35:19 · 42 answers · asked by friendly_funlover1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a myspace.....posted a pic of myself after I had gotten in a bar fight (HUGE black eye) and all these girls left comments saying how I look bad azz, sexy, hot, they really got all wet over it. I think I should get in fights more often now. So girls, is it true?

2007-08-30 08:34:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 08:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Con4Life 3 in Singles & Dating

I need a job in an International company, i speak 4 1/2 languages..How can i contact these companies, through what, or who?? i live in NY by the way!

2007-08-30 08:33:34 · 3 answers · asked by Ajlina 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 28, and never had any girlfriend. I have sexual addiction (compulsive musterbation, sexual fantacy thinking).
I don't hope I will find any real sex partner. To recover from my sexual addiction and depression, I decided to practice celibacy. I want to know that, how longtime I have to force myself to stop sexual activity? Will a time come when I have no sexual desire and So I will not have to force myself and will be free from pain?

2007-08-30 08:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 28, and never had any girlfriend. I have sexual addiction (compulsive musterbation, sexual fantacy thinking).
I don't hope I will find any real sex partner. To recover from my sexual addiction and depression, I decided to practice celibacy. I want to know that, how longtime I have to force myself to stop sexual activity? Will a time come when I have no sexual desire and So I will not have to force myself and will be free from pain?

2007-08-30 08:29:37 · 28 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had a crush on a teacher? I have one and I don't know what to do about it.

2007-08-30 08:27:41 · 23 answers · asked by meow. 4 in Singles & Dating

i am not asking this question to be a wise guy, i just sometimes wonder if there are women out there that are incapable of being
b # t c h y. i have only had long term relationships with two women and i am just curious. wonder if there are women out there that never get b # tchy at all.

2007-08-30 08:20:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently broke up with my boyfriend, But i can't seem to get him off of my mind. What's the best way to get over a guy, and stop thinking about him?

2007-08-30 08:17:38 · 29 answers · asked by Glamorous 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 08:14:28 · 43 answers · asked by zul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 08:14:05 · 18 answers · asked by Candashia R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hear alot about divorce and how hard it is and how long it takes to get over it. Doesn't anyone feel happier and relieved to be out of a really bad relationship? I'm not advocating divorce, but it just seems that sometimes it IS the best thing that can be done.

Any happily divorced stories to share? Thanks.

2007-08-30 08:11:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i know i am getting married in april and well i dont think i would care too much if someone wore black and white dress. So my future sil is getting married in sept on top of the fact that i have been so nice with her throwing shower which no bridesmaid even showed for, paying for hotel pitching in to help her all the time going places with her when her groom couldnt because he is out of state i.e cake tasting, food tasting, wine tasting! I have also paid a close friend of mine to attend the hotel so that she can take the children attending after dinner is over! (i had to pay her 100.00 plus the hotel room 199.00) She asked what i was wearing so i showed her the dress and she flat out told me i cant wear anything with white in it! here is the picture
http://www.whitehouseblackmarket.com/store/product.asp?PID=300108449

what do you guys think brides would you be mad if someone wore this??

2007-08-30 08:10:50 · 34 answers · asked by RedSoxRock!!! 4 in Weddings

2007-08-30 08:08:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 08:08:03 · 6 answers · asked by mdhanddjs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 08:07:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I moved schools last year and i havent made any friends. I am always on my own and depressed. When it was my first week i had someone that was looking after me and then 3 weeks later her and her friends just ditched me. That really upset me and i cant stop thinking about it. It is a really small school like theres 20 people in my year and they all have their friendship groups. Someone else who started before me has got friends and she was one of the ones who left me on my own. I think she is so selfish and horrible. What is wrong with me? Why should she have friends if she is horrible. Im not horrible. I treat people like humans- not like dirt. I cant sleep now because im dreading next week. What am i going to do with myself? I have 2 years left at school and i cant wait to leave. I cant take it anymore. Im just feeling so depressed now. Im probarly going to fail my GCSE's now because im so unhappy at school. Please anyone help.
Thanks

2007-08-30 08:05:12 · 47 answers · asked by _x_ hannah_x_ 1 in Friends

She'll be with me for 4 days, should i tell him to leave money for her? so that she can go out to the Zoo and pier? he;s my older brother and my niece is 3

2007-08-30 08:04:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We've been together for a year...he wants to live together before getting married, but I really don't. Ever since I was a little girl I've been planning in one way or another my wedding. It's very important to me! I think he's mostly concerned about money. But I would get married in my backyard, no ring, no cake kind of wedding and it would be the best thing ever, because I just love him so much and want to do the vows, and not to mention we are planning on going to the Peace Corps in 2009. Nothings final or anything, we haven't even put in our papers, but we HAVE to be married to do this. He knows it, so why isn't he asking me to marry him? SO, I was thinking of asking him! I'm not this type of girl, but we're very open with one another, and was thinking of doing it in more of a "Hey, I love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you. I can't think of a single reason why we shouldn't start planning a wedding." Guys, what would be your response to this? Girls opinions welcome!

2007-08-30 08:01:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend andI has been together for the last 6 years and have been liveing together for 5 of those years. We are to get married next spring and what I just found out yesterday was that he is married, and has been for the last 8 years that mean he got married when he was 18 now i dont now where this wife is or if there even still talking to each other or what. What do you think I should do?

1) Confront him talk about it and stay togther

2) Confront him talk about it and break up

3) Confront him beat $hit down his throat and go to jail and then break up with him and then when I get out of jail beat his as$ again and get some of my cousin to help me this time.

What do you think I shold do?

2007-08-30 08:00:00 · 31 answers · asked by sexy me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

While my husband and I were contemplating divorce, I had an emotional affair. When my husband and I decided to work things out, I told him about the affair.

Recently, the man I had the affair with contacted me and I said, "I wish I hadn't told you anything about my feelings toward you" and he said, "No sweetheart, what you wish is that you didn't tell your husband."

When I asked him what he meant by this, he wouldn't answer, he just chuckled.

Ok, what do you think he meant?

2007-08-30 07:59:46 · 11 answers · asked by willow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does your perception of someone's appearance alter as you get to know them? Especially in a negative way? Or can you overlook the bad traits if they're easy on the eye?

2007-08-30 07:57:22 · 69 answers · asked by tilly 5 in Singles & Dating

How do you know/tell when he's "the one" for you? Is it just this thing that suddenly hits you, like poof, I could be with this guy forever? Or is it like..."wow we work really well together, I think I could be with him forever" I mean....how do you know? Is it the inseperable feeling? I doubt all of my feelings ALWAYS, no matter who I'm with or what I do. I have this constant itch of unsatifaction in all that I do. So I wonder if I'll ever find the one. I am seeing someone ...that I look at ...and wonder if he could be the one for me, I love spending time with him, i'm always excited to see him/be with him, and it's never a dull moment, but I don't trust myself/my thoughts/feelings, and I always wonder whether I'm making the right move. I need some input on this! Please help! What is the soulmate feeling...if you've had it...or how you imagine it. Thanks

2007-08-30 07:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 07:54:10 · 12 answers · asked by YD 4 in Weddings